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by Ticktock
Tue Jun 18, 2013 10:54 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Boyfriend has hundreds of photos of his ex
Replies: 13
Views: 2407

Re: Boyfriend has hundreds of photos of his ex

Some people never move on, and often it is just a form of deferred revenge on their ex's, look at the love you withheld from me well I am doing it to another man/woman... Why not be honest about his ex, if you can make him wake up to how he is being manipulated then you might break her hold over him...
by Ticktock
Sat Jun 01, 2013 9:19 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Tennage Boy Problems
Replies: 15
Views: 2718

Re: Tennage Boy Problems

In these sort of situations you are still in love with the boy you thought he was, you hate what he actually is.

Consider yourself lucky you only wasted a month on him.

I would contact your former friend and apologise...
by Ticktock
Mon May 27, 2013 3:18 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Tennage Boy Problems
Replies: 15
Views: 2718

Re: Tennage Boy Problems

I can see his thinking, his previous relationship was imbalanced so in any future one he determined to always have the upper hand by only staying with relationship he didn't have to work at. Silly and immature would be kind ways of describing it as this is a recipe for holding an emotional gun to th...
by Ticktock
Tue May 21, 2013 10:52 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Is she on the rebound/Is she with a control freak?
Replies: 4
Views: 947

Re: Is she on the rebound/Is she with a control freak?

Maybe she is on to a really good thing and doesn't want to screw it up by explaining a complicated past, something you have obviously been privy too. This also might be the problem, you have been a confidant and now you seem to be shut out, and yet after three weeks you seem to have jumped to the as...
by Ticktock
Mon May 20, 2013 10:00 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: How to end my marriage
Replies: 7
Views: 1010

Re: How to end my marriage

You need to talk to her, you have bottled this up for years and the anger is tainting everything you do. To walk away now is simply running away, hoping that once you are away from her the anger and hate over what her and her lover did to you will magically disappear. Let's be honest, do you really ...
by Ticktock
Tue May 14, 2013 7:55 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: how to be supportive
Replies: 2
Views: 464

Re: how to be supportive

Not surprising he is feeling depressed, it must feel like everything is happening at once! The problem being that depression leads to a feeling of helplessness which means he would not be able to see the exit even if he wanted... None of these matters will be resolved immediately but first break the...
by Ticktock
Thu May 09, 2013 9:09 pm
Forum: Work & Colleagues
Topic: Problem with woman at work.
Replies: 9
Views: 4084

Re: Problem with woman at work.

We only get ssp when ill so i cannot afford to take more than a couple of days regardless of how ill i am I had someone recently who did exactly the same, edged it out to her holiday, spent all the holiday ill and then came back was off again sick straight afterwards and almost ended up on a formal...
by Ticktock
Thu May 09, 2013 5:28 pm
Forum: Work & Colleagues
Topic: Problem with woman at work.
Replies: 9
Views: 4084

Re: Problem with woman at work.

The way to deal with this woman is not to make it personal, she will win if you storm off without a reason. First, unless you are top of a trigger point, take your sick leave! The number of union members I have represented because they have forced themselves in when they are ill and ended up far wor...
by Ticktock
Wed May 08, 2013 2:37 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Long Distance Relationship
Replies: 7
Views: 1594

Re: Long Distance Relationship

It is still very early days, and the fact is that you can't really be together properly until the divorce has gone through, so maybe he doesn't want to make it too serious just yet. Also you have to consider your boys, if your 9 year old feels he is coming second in your affections you will reap the...
by Ticktock
Tue May 07, 2013 10:07 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Working together
Replies: 13
Views: 1421

Re: Working together

In an average secondary you would barely see each other and it does have the advantage that you always have someone to go to lunch with...

As you say if it doesn't work out then you won't have to see each other if you don't want to, still you are looking on the dark side a bit there.
by Ticktock
Tue May 07, 2013 2:14 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Help request!
Replies: 6
Views: 956

Re: Help request!

Of course he is controlling, and by the sound of it obsessive as well. It is also easy to see how you would think twice about seeing your 'immoral' family ever again if this kept on for too much longer. You are thirty plus not eighteen and if he can't respect your common sense and obvious affection ...
by Ticktock
Mon May 06, 2013 9:23 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Help request!
Replies: 6
Views: 956

Re: Help request!

It's interesting as normally I would associate that attitude with a strong religious background. The idea that if you think the wrong thing it somehow will damage you. Has he ever spoken about why he considers it so important, obviously such a strong attitude must be based on a previous experience. ...
by Ticktock
Sun May 05, 2013 2:32 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Step family and relationship dynamics
Replies: 2
Views: 581

Re: Step family and relationship dynamics

I will try and address your long letter, lets first start with your daughter becoming friends with her stepsister. It strikes me that this is really a story about three unhappy adults and the emotional war they have been conducting using their own children, the reason your daughters friendship affec...
by Ticktock
Tue Apr 16, 2013 11:17 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Having trouble forgiving him
Replies: 10
Views: 1769

Re: Having trouble forgiving him

Well you know the advice you would give yourself ie dump his sorry aardvark, plenty more fish in the sea! If the main concern is staying true to who you are then their should be no other point to discuss, the problem being you love the guy and you are drifting into areas of gray and you definitely d...
by Ticktock
Mon Apr 15, 2013 11:43 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: His Secret Facebook Friend
Replies: 2
Views: 742

Re: His Secret Facebook Friend

Well you could install a keylogger on the pc and read whatever he has typed to his friend, but then what happens if it is perfectly innocent, or more difficult it isn't innocent at all. You could present him with the full logs and then be accused of spying on him, and you would end up apologising fo...