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by boulding
Mon Nov 11, 2019 3:17 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: I've slept with someone else while on a break!
Replies: 6
Views: 291

Re: I've slept with someone else while on a break!

Hi I think you know what the best advice is - take your courage in both hands and get rid of both these creeps. Do it now. Block them on your phone and social media and make a conscious decision not to go to places where they are likely to be. There are decent guys out there but you won't meet one a...
by boulding
Mon Nov 11, 2019 3:01 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: What should I do?
Replies: 4
Views: 290

Re: What should I do?

Hi there harassed Please don't let this small problem spoil your new relationship or cause you worry. After all you've done nothing wrong. You've just tried to act kindly and decently at the time of your ex's departure but that was 15 months ago. If the tax payer won't fund her guest bedroom why on ...
by boulding
Thu Oct 03, 2019 8:39 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Is he normal?
Replies: 5
Views: 389

Re: Is he normal?

Hi Itsme

No it's not normal and for the sake of your son and yourself you need to get out quick.
by boulding
Thu Oct 03, 2019 8:31 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Based on this story, should I end things with my wife? Long!
Replies: 2
Views: 256

Re: Based on this story, should I end things with my wife? Long!

Hi Paul Your wife has behaved badly and been caught out in lies and deceit. I'm not sure you will ever find out exactly what went on if she wont talk about it but it seems what started as just a bit of silliness escalated into something else. She has now become defensive, refusing to communicate and...
by boulding
Mon Aug 26, 2019 4:55 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: What to do now I'm leaving home
Replies: 1
Views: 320

Re: What to do now I'm leaving home

Hi Silly Mistakes I think you are being a little bit hard on yourself and trying to analyse things into the middle of next week. If you've only just left home I'm assuming you're quite young (early twenties?) so surely you have time to relax and see how things pan out. You seem to have a lot of awar...
by boulding
Sun Aug 25, 2019 7:59 pm
Forum: Mental wellbeing
Topic: i think i have ADD
Replies: 1
Views: 388

Re: i think i have ADD

Hi gamergirl I'm so sorry to hear you have these problems. At your age you should be enjoying life. (I'm guessing you are about 15). However I think your mum is probably right and these problems should not be medicalised. Your brain is physiologically not fully developed yet and it would be a mistak...
by boulding
Tue Jul 16, 2019 1:32 pm
Forum: Friends
Topic: I am babysitting my business partner's 55 year old overly affectionate sister! I need advice.
Replies: 1
Views: 306

Re: I am babysitting my business partner's 55 year old overly affectionate sister! I need advice.

Hi Sylvana You are overthinking this to the point of rationalising it and normalising the situation. This behaviour is completely unacceptable and creepy. She has no right to put her hands on you in this disrespectful and inappropriate way. All the while you put up with this disgusting and disturbin...
by boulding
Mon Jun 24, 2019 8:49 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Girlfriend Tattoos advice
Replies: 3
Views: 671

Re: Girlfriend Tattoos advice

Hi Smiler I think you are trying to be way too nice and trying to avoid an argument at all costs. Stop being apologetic and self effacing. It doesn't need to be an argument. You say she is your best friend so do what a best friend would do and give some friendly honest advice. If it really is as hid...
by boulding
Thu May 02, 2019 10:06 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Newly married but little to no intimacy
Replies: 4
Views: 930

Re: Newly married but little to no intimacy

Hi Mr Lee I’m sorry to hear that you are experiencing difficulties so early in your marriage – you are newly weds and this should be a happy time in your lives. Please don’t be offended but you do sound a just little bit like an unreconstructed Neanderthal. Surely you can’t believe that a marriage r...
by boulding
Sun Mar 17, 2019 1:55 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Feeling distant from husband
Replies: 1
Views: 743

Re: Feeling distant from husband

Hi JW No I don't think you are being the slightest bit selfish or unreasonable. Most wives would feel a little bit resentful that they and the children are getting so little attention. After all this wasn't what you signed up for when you got married. You need to take steps immediately to stop this ...
by boulding
Fri Dec 07, 2018 11:34 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Relationship with a female escort
Replies: 18
Views: 2576

Re: Relationship with a female escort

Hi Steve The scary thing about this is that it has become normalised in your mind. It is justified and rationalised via school fees, debts, appeals processes and the "need for savings." You have an attachment to her and you say she feels the same. There's nothing to suggest that she's not a nice per...
by boulding
Thu Nov 08, 2018 6:22 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Marriage?.
Replies: 3
Views: 1150

Re: Marriage?.

Hi Diana I'm not sure if you are asking for advice on how to turn him down or advice on whether you should get married. If you don't want to get married then tell him fairly and squarely but bear in mind he might take this as a rejection and decide not to continue in a half hearted relationship. Don...
by boulding
Sun Nov 04, 2018 8:37 am
Forum: And the rest...
Topic: Dating sites
Replies: 5
Views: 1544

Re: Dating sites

Hi Yes I think there was a time when internet dating was for saddoes but that certainly isn't the case now. It's gone mainstream and it's a good way to get onto the dating scene and meet people you wouldn't otherwise meet. In fact one survey suggests that 1 in 5 relationships start online. However i...
by boulding
Fri Oct 19, 2018 7:08 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Fiancé doesn't help me...
Replies: 4
Views: 1350

Re: Fiancé doesn't help me...

Hi Rarity I'm sorry to hear that you are in this awful situation. You must feel so frustrated having to do all the work and clear up after this useless lazy lump. I'm not usually keen on ultimatums because you have to follow through but on this occasion I think that's just what you will have to do b...
by boulding
Wed Sep 19, 2018 8:41 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Why is this married man acting like this towards me?
Replies: 6
Views: 1413

Re: Why is this married man acting like this towards me?

Hi Grace I can tell you exactly what all this "means." It means he's a creep. Tarantula is absolutely right he is testing the water with you. He's being disloyal to his wife and leading you on. Don't let yourself be a sucker. Stop texting him and if he starts up some soppy conversation with you star...