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by boulding
Tue Jul 16, 2019 1:32 pm
Forum: Friends
Topic: I am babysitting my business partner's 55 year old overly affectionate sister! I need advice.
Replies: 1
Views: 134

Re: I am babysitting my business partner's 55 year old overly affectionate sister! I need advice.

Hi Sylvana You are overthinking this to the point of rationalising it and normalising the situation. This behaviour is completely unacceptable and creepy. She has no right to put her hands on you in this disrespectful and inappropriate way. All the while you put up with this disgusting and disturbin...
by boulding
Mon Jun 24, 2019 8:49 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Girlfriend Tattoos advice
Replies: 3
Views: 363

Re: Girlfriend Tattoos advice

Hi Smiler I think you are trying to be way too nice and trying to avoid an argument at all costs. Stop being apologetic and self effacing. It doesn't need to be an argument. You say she is your best friend so do what a best friend would do and give some friendly honest advice. If it really is as hid...
by boulding
Thu May 02, 2019 10:06 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Newly married but little to no intimacy
Replies: 4
Views: 575

Re: Newly married but little to no intimacy

Hi Mr Lee I’m sorry to hear that you are experiencing difficulties so early in your marriage – you are newly weds and this should be a happy time in your lives. Please don’t be offended but you do sound a just little bit like an unreconstructed Neanderthal. Surely you can’t believe that a marriage r...
by boulding
Sun Mar 17, 2019 1:55 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Feeling distant from husband
Replies: 1
Views: 499

Re: Feeling distant from husband

Hi JW No I don't think you are being the slightest bit selfish or unreasonable. Most wives would feel a little bit resentful that they and the children are getting so little attention. After all this wasn't what you signed up for when you got married. You need to take steps immediately to stop this ...
by boulding
Fri Dec 07, 2018 11:34 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Relationship with a female escort
Replies: 18
Views: 1917

Re: Relationship with a female escort

Hi Steve The scary thing about this is that it has become normalised in your mind. It is justified and rationalised via school fees, debts, appeals processes and the "need for savings." You have an attachment to her and you say she feels the same. There's nothing to suggest that she's not a nice per...
by boulding
Thu Nov 08, 2018 6:22 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Marriage?.
Replies: 3
Views: 830

Re: Marriage?.

Hi Diana I'm not sure if you are asking for advice on how to turn him down or advice on whether you should get married. If you don't want to get married then tell him fairly and squarely but bear in mind he might take this as a rejection and decide not to continue in a half hearted relationship. Don...
by boulding
Sun Nov 04, 2018 8:37 am
Forum: And the rest...
Topic: Dating sites
Replies: 5
Views: 1163

Re: Dating sites

Hi Yes I think there was a time when internet dating was for saddoes but that certainly isn't the case now. It's gone mainstream and it's a good way to get onto the dating scene and meet people you wouldn't otherwise meet. In fact one survey suggests that 1 in 5 relationships start online. However i...
by boulding
Fri Oct 19, 2018 7:08 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Fiancé doesn't help me...
Replies: 4
Views: 1000

Re: Fiancé doesn't help me...

Hi Rarity I'm sorry to hear that you are in this awful situation. You must feel so frustrated having to do all the work and clear up after this useless lazy lump. I'm not usually keen on ultimatums because you have to follow through but on this occasion I think that's just what you will have to do b...
by boulding
Wed Sep 19, 2018 8:41 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Why is this married man acting like this towards me?
Replies: 6
Views: 1074

Re: Why is this married man acting like this towards me?

Hi Grace I can tell you exactly what all this "means." It means he's a creep. Tarantula is absolutely right he is testing the water with you. He's being disloyal to his wife and leading you on. Don't let yourself be a sucker. Stop texting him and if he starts up some soppy conversation with you star...
by boulding
Fri Sep 07, 2018 9:24 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: NEED ADVICE ON STRANGE THING GIRLFRIEND SAID
Replies: 10
Views: 1484

Re: NEED ADVICE ON STRANGE THING GIRLFRIEND SAID

Hi Jamesie I am sorry to hear your life is troubled and I think it is of real concern that you recently considered suicide. I do hope you are receiving professional help and support to get your life back on track. I think at the moment you should be putting your own welfare first and decide what you...
by boulding
Thu Sep 06, 2018 10:05 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: NEED ADVICE ON STRANGE THING GIRLFRIEND SAID
Replies: 10
Views: 1484

Re: NEED ADVICE ON STRANGE THING GIRLFRIEND SAID

Hi Jamsie It is difficult to understand why a 39 year old man with a girlfriend would get so drunk that he decided it would be a good idea to pay for sex. It's difficult to understand why you would dramatically break it off with her but "keep talking." It's even more incomprehensible why you would d...
by boulding
Mon Aug 27, 2018 9:31 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Why is this married man acting like this towards me?
Replies: 6
Views: 1074

Re: What does this gaze mean?

Hi Grace

If he's married I think you should avoid having cosy chats with him. Just keep him as a casual friend.
by boulding
Sun Aug 26, 2018 1:31 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Why is this married man acting like this towards me?
Replies: 6
Views: 1074

Re: What does this gaze mean?

Hi Grace This guy clearly likes you because he wanted to chat to you one on one but whether this is just as a friend or anything more only time will tell. Don't waste time trying to analyse what this gaze or facial expression means after all he could just be suppressing an hiccup. Just enjoy the fri...
by boulding
Sun Aug 26, 2018 1:24 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Things are getting worse.. I need some serious advice.
Replies: 8
Views: 1218

Re: Things are getting worse.. I need some serious advice.

Hi You say you love him and presumably he wasn't like this when you first married him otherwise you would have kicked him out long ago. So it seems that he has become demoralised, disillusioned and possibly depressed from working in a failing business. Try not to blame him if he just can't cope with...
by boulding
Sat Aug 25, 2018 3:24 pm
Forum: Friends
Topic: what to do about this friend
Replies: 1
Views: 359

Re: what to do about this friend

Hi Emily No need to lose a friend just remove the trigger that sets off this annoying behaviour. She has got a firm association in her mind between you and the thing she likes, coca cola. Stop buying cola and carry a water bottle of ordinary tap water. When she asks just say. "I'm into water now. It...