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by Akidma
Sun Mar 27, 2016 5:01 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: What does he want??
Replies: 2
Views: 942

Re: What does he want??

Hi It all sounds very confusing to me; I do feel people like you don't even know what a proper relationship is, so wouldn't know where to start. You seem to feel that messaging someone is a part of a relationship? It isn't. Give and take could be a start. Understanding someone may help but I do feel...
by Akidma
Tue Mar 15, 2016 12:13 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Separated from my wife who is now sleeping with someone else
Replies: 8
Views: 2490

Re: Separated from my wife who is now sleeping with someone

Hi I have been there, so understand what you are suffering. Firstly forget about Facebook, Texting and any other similar systems. Be a proper person. Learn to like yourself. Look in the mirror and tell yourself what you are worth. Keep up your relationship with your children. Don't pacify them just ...
by Akidma
Mon Mar 14, 2016 11:48 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Neglected girlfriend moved on need her back
Replies: 3
Views: 1339

Re: Neglected girlfriend moved on need her back

Hi You need to grow up and face facts. First forget all of this childish messaging thinking this is a part of a relationship. It isn't. Forget this girl. You were not adult enough for her. She, it seems, wished for a proper relationship with you but the way you acted deserved exactly what you got. T...
by Akidma
Mon Mar 14, 2016 11:37 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Moving on after split
Replies: 3
Views: 1343

Re: Moving on after split

Hi There must be something you could enjoy. Maybe attending a local football match, or Green Bowling or the Chess Club. Look on the internet and search your local area for clubs which would suit. Then join one or two. Don't even think about making friends just join up then interact within the club. ...
by Akidma
Mon Mar 14, 2016 10:45 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: plastic surgery
Replies: 9
Views: 2563

Re: plastic surgery

Hi Its a scam. Be warned! It will cost about 2.5K for nose surgery; my former wife had similar so I know. I was not sure it was needed or indeed necessary but it pleased her so I went along with it. Sometimes we just have to accept what we were blessed with. Maybe you should, after all you are fit a...
by Akidma
Mon Mar 14, 2016 10:35 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: His first relationship, our first time + long distance
Replies: 1
Views: 864

Re: His first relationship, our first time + long distance

I do think that you are supposing quite a lot; you don't know this guy yet are speaking about relationships and sex. Forget such things and just spend time with this man getting to know each other. Don't worry about what you think you look like, he has seen you albeit over a computer screen, but eve...
by Akidma
Mon May 04, 2015 11:40 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Boyfriend problem. What should I do? HELP!
Replies: 5
Views: 1553

Re: Boyfriend problem. What should I do? HELP!

Hi Dump him and do it soon. Yes I know that isn't what you perhaps wanted to hear but it is sound advice. He is straying; playing the field but equally he wants to keep you nice and safe in the background. You have become, and indeed you are now second best because he has discovered another life wit...
by Akidma
Sun Mar 01, 2015 12:09 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Boyfriend hates my Bi-sexual past - HELP!
Replies: 3
Views: 1560

Re: Boyfriend hates my Bi-sexual past - HELP!

Hi He does not understand tour past and is struggling to come to terms that you have been with both sexes. He must accept it or move on because you are who you are because of your past! You have to talk to him about it (somewhat without being graphic). Your future depends upon his being able to acce...
by Akidma
Sun Mar 01, 2015 11:50 am
Forum: And the rest...
Topic: My Nephew
Replies: 3
Views: 1951

Re: My Nephew

Hi He has nobody to look up to so does what he wants. The longer it goes on the more of a waste he will become. Why go to work if nobody forces it, after all he will still be warm; he will still be fed and have his washing done for him. Someone in the family (it should be a parent) must take a grip ...
by Akidma
Sun Mar 01, 2015 11:33 am
Forum: Children
Topic: single daughter
Replies: 4
Views: 2145

Re: single daughter

Hi As the last response you need to leave her to it and worry about something else. She is attractive and probably does not need any help from anyone towards her future. There may well be underlying reasons why she isn't dating anyway. She may be gay; she may be bisexual; she may also be already see...
by Akidma
Sun Mar 01, 2015 11:23 am
Forum: Children
Topic: Arrrgh Nits!!!
Replies: 27
Views: 16723

Re: Arrrgh Nits!!!

Hi Nothing to worry about. Nits, and head lice are hardy little critters, and take a while to die. Sometimes you need two different types of shampoo from your chemists because they can become immune to some. My son used to bring them home from School and infect me with them. Some people are more sus...
by Akidma
Sun Mar 01, 2015 11:11 am
Forum: Parents
Topic: My mother, her partner & our house
Replies: 5
Views: 2348

Re: My mother, her partner & our house

Hi I guess you have moved in now and perhaps your problem is now resolved. Whatever happens do not let any of your parents have a key. If an occasion ever rears up whereby you wish them to be there when you are not, then ''loan'' a key to them for that one off occasion and take back the key later. P...
by Akidma
Sun Mar 01, 2015 10:13 am
Forum: Parents
Topic: How do I leave my mother's home
Replies: 3
Views: 1927

Re: How do I leave my mother's home

Hi You need to stiffen up that weak backbone of yours and take control, that is if you ever want to have anything in life. Tell your Sister very firmly to get her ass off to alcoholics anonymous. At the very least she must be separated from your dear old Mother so they cannot fall out and argue. As ...
by Akidma
Sun Mar 01, 2015 10:00 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Oral sex
Replies: 4
Views: 1456

Re: Oral sex

Hi Your post causes me concern especially where you relate to being 'forced' into Oral sex? What we don't know is if your Husband is in a habit of forcing things upon you, hence that is why you put it that way - or did you just mean his manly wish to perform Oral on you will naturally result in your...
by Akidma
Sun Dec 07, 2014 1:17 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: suicidal boyfriend
Replies: 3
Views: 986

Re: suicidal boyfriend

Hi Presumably when you posted this you must have known somebody would perhaps say something in response that you didn't wish to hear. This is that response. but I will still continue anyway, because it is good advice. Change the way you interact with your man. Do not sympathise with him, when he off...