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by Bel Bel
Thu Dec 31, 2015 10:19 am
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Happy Birthday!
Replies: 865
Views: 158759

Re: Happy Birthday!

Happy Birthday Tarantula

I will have a drink for you later :wink:

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There were better cakes but they scared me :baby:
by Bel Bel
Thu Dec 31, 2015 10:10 am
Forum: Siblings
Topic: Don't want to be around family
Replies: 13
Views: 5885

Re: Don't want to be around family

Hi Strawberry
How did Xmas day go?
by Bel Bel
Mon Dec 21, 2015 3:39 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Wife jealous of my daughter URGENT advice
Replies: 6
Views: 1568

Re: Wife jealous of my daughter URGENT advice

i hope this has resolved itself but if not ask your wife to sit down and ask her to put herself in the same position with her own child
Your child is your priority every single time
She does not have the mental capacity that an adult has and need to be nurtured
I agree give your wife the ultimatum
by Bel Bel
Mon Dec 21, 2015 3:31 pm
Forum: Siblings
Topic: Don't want to be around family
Replies: 13
Views: 5885

Re: Don't want to be around family

Have you spoken to your sister? She should be telling your mum she doesn't want any alcohol forced on her In fact does she even know this is your mums plans Putting her back in that bad situation is terrible Can you get a leaflet about drinking with her problems and get it posted to your mum anonymo...
by Bel Bel
Mon Dec 21, 2015 3:26 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Happy Birthday!
Replies: 865
Views: 158759

Re: Happy Birthday!

Happy Birthday for tomorrow Jo.
I am off to Lapland UK with the grandson - soooo excited

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by Bel Bel
Thu Nov 26, 2015 4:22 pm
Forum: Children
Topic: 5 year old ignores me!!
Replies: 1
Views: 1267

Re: 5 year old ignores me!!

Are you sure there is nothing troubling her bullying or inappropriate touching. i don't want to scare you but sometimes these behaviours are a form of trying to let you know something It could just be attention seeking so once you have ruled out anything sinister then you can handle it The problem i...
by Bel Bel
Thu Nov 26, 2015 4:06 pm
Forum: And the rest...
Topic: Single AGAIN
Replies: 4
Views: 2252

Re: Single AGAIN

It's most likely they, for one reason or another, had just had enough, fell out of love or got fed up with a behaviour you weren't addressing and instead of dealing with the problem they ran off with other people Not everyone will do this but often people try to find a new partner before leaving the...
by Bel Bel
Tue Nov 17, 2015 3:04 pm
Forum: Under 16s
Topic: What's wrong with me?!
Replies: 2
Views: 3909

Re: What's wrong with me?!

You need to go and tell your doctor. You can get help and your life could be much improved if you do. You don't need to suffer alone. You can visit the MIND website and get some useful local contacts to help you too. Exercise is known to increase happy hormones "endorphins" so try to do some. Even i...
by Bel Bel
Wed Oct 07, 2015 4:01 pm
Forum: Children
Topic: back problems for a kid?
Replies: 3
Views: 1973

Re: back problems for a kid?

yes she may have an underlying issue such as scoliosis I would get her a back pack and insist she wears it properly, not over 1 shoulder Take her to an osteopath or chiropractor to get checked for any abnormalities Has she got a decent mattress on her bed? Can she leave some books at school in a loc...
by Bel Bel
Tue Oct 06, 2015 12:11 pm
Forum: And the rest...
Topic: Work near to home for less or away and upset my wife?
Replies: 5
Views: 2486

Re: Work near to home for less or away and upset my wife?

Have you put it down in black and white earn X can pay for xxx earn x less can only pay for x tell her if it's what she wants what is she prepared to sacrifice , it's about you too If she doesn't understand how bad this is making you feel then it may be because you aren't communicating it very well....
by Bel Bel
Mon Oct 05, 2015 12:01 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Feel like I'm being used
Replies: 4
Views: 1255

Re: Feel like I'm being used

ask them both when they are together, they will find it difficult to outright lie in front of each other

However I really don't know why you want to be in a relationship with someone who makes you feel paranoid and constantly moves the goal posts on you
by Bel Bel
Fri Oct 02, 2015 2:34 pm
Forum: Finances
Topic: Credit card payments
Replies: 1
Views: 1202

Re: Credit card payments

Ok so you need to find out if you have the option to do balances transfer or money transfers You don't have to justify what your spending the money for If you have a balance transfer you can pay off one by balance transferring to the other If you have a money transfer then you can transfer money to ...
by Bel Bel
Wed Sep 30, 2015 12:27 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: please please help, I'm an idiot!!!!!!! :(
Replies: 4
Views: 1415

Re: please please help, I'm an idiot!!!!!!! :(

I think you tell him what you have said to us. To be fair he did try to emotionally blackmail you to stay as he said he wouldn't even try to make it work if you moved and he said he didn't want marriage When a relationship breaks up you have to examine the cause, if that cause hasn't changed why wil...
by Bel Bel
Fri Sep 18, 2015 9:48 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Age gap issues...hasnt worked in past why would it now!
Replies: 5
Views: 1336

Re: Age gap issues...hasnt worked in past why would it now!

She should be messing with you or genuinely something happened that she can't or isn't willing to tell you about Stop looking for happiness in this girl. She obviously has some issues and ultimately I think you will end up more hurt She is still growing up and finding out how she is so let her do th...