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I agree with Retrochav and Bel Bel. It's practical and necessary. I was married and divorced at quite a young age. Fortunately we didn't have any assets to split, but it has taught me that when you're going through something like that you make decisions from a place of anger and pain, decisions that...

Just want to say congratulations! And also that I completely agree with Bel Bel - it's normal to feel like you do but it will settle down as you ease into the role.

Just popped in to say... Happy New Year everyone!

Thank you! Lovin the xbox cake Bel Bel!

Hi all, I've moved the site again today - everything seems to have gone smoothly. I had to move it because our server kept crashing almost as soon as I put PP on there in November, so it had to come off. It's now on its own brand new hosting account so if it does go down at least it won't bring my c...

Blimey Fidel, this is almost becoming an annual habit! Will you be popping in every year? Hope all is still well with you!

Hi all On 24th November 2012 I moved the site to a new server because we were outgrowing the old one. The new server has more up to date versions of the software that the site uses and it runs much faster - I hope you'll notice the difference. During the move I had a few issues with the database. Re...

I don't think there's a right or wrong answer to this one because different people have different tolerance levels. It would also depend on how serious the relationship is. I personally would find it completely unacceptable if it was a serious relationship - so I wouldn't be in a serious relationshi...

Hi again I really do feel for you. I know you say he's kind but he's not being very kind to you is he? Even if he doesn't understand your feelings he should still be willing to take them in to account, he should be concerned about what you're saying, he should be willing to come to a compromise - he...

Wow, I have to say that I'm a bit gob-smacked by all this. These people are being rude, inconsiderate and intrusive - this is not how friends behave. These people are taking advantage of your hospitality. I can't believe that your husband doesn't agree. I'd find these frequent visits unbearable and ...

Apart from the obvious worries about drugs and trying to keep up with his wealthy crowd I think the best thing you can do for him now is to stop bailing him out - otherwise he's never going to learn. I know this is difficult - I've got two children in their 20s and I help them out now and again, but...

Happy Birthday Snail - hope you're doing something fun and outrageous!

It sounds to me as though you've both been sending each other some very mixed messages. I can understand why you backed off from him after he had talked about moving in together and about marriage, because that's a bit scary when you're in a new relationship! So up until that point I get it. After t...

I don't totally agree with the others. If I've understood this right It sounds as though you were both happy for it to be casual, but his cuddly nature has confused you. For a man I don't think that being cuddly automatically means that he wants a relationship - it just means that he enjoys the cudd...

Guess who's 1001 today! Wonder if we've got the oldest moderator on the Internet?