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by Jo
Mon Feb 11, 2013 5:54 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Pre-Nup
Replies: 4
Views: 850

Re: Pre-Nup

I agree with Retrochav and Bel Bel. It's practical and necessary. I was married and divorced at quite a young age. Fortunately we didn't have any assets to split, but it has taught me that when you're going through something like that you make decisions from a place of anger and pain, decisions that...
by Jo
Mon Feb 11, 2013 5:34 pm
Forum: Mental wellbeing
Topic: New role
Replies: 3
Views: 1931

Re: New role

Just want to say congratulations! And also that I completely agree with Bel Bel - it's normal to feel like you do but it will settle down as you ease into the role.
by Jo
Mon Dec 31, 2012 11:50 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Happy New Year!
Replies: 3
Views: 2248

Happy New Year!

Just popped in to say... Happy New Year everyone! \:D/
by Jo
Sat Dec 22, 2012 4:50 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Happy Birthday!
Replies: 865
Views: 158762

Re: Happy Birthday!

Thank you! Lovin the xbox cake Bel Bel! :biggrin:
by Jo
Sat Dec 15, 2012 7:38 pm
Forum: Forum Support
Topic: Site move = temporarily broken database and more speed!
Replies: 1
Views: 2262

Re: Site move = temporarily broken database and more speed!

Hi all, I've moved the site again today - everything seems to have gone smoothly. I had to move it because our server kept crashing almost as soon as I put PP on there in November, so it had to come off. It's now on its own brand new hosting account so if it does go down at least it won't bring my c...
by Jo
Thu Dec 06, 2012 9:44 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: back by unpopular demand
Replies: 18
Views: 9461

Re: back by unpopular demand

Blimey Fidel, this is almost becoming an annual habit! Will you be popping in every year? Hope all is still well with you! :D
by Jo
Wed Nov 28, 2012 3:00 am
Forum: Forum Support
Topic: Site move = temporarily broken database and more speed!
Replies: 1
Views: 2262

Site move = temporarily broken database and more speed!

Hi all On 24th November 2012 I moved the site to a new server because we were outgrowing the old one. The new server has more up to date versions of the software that the site uses and it runs much faster - I hope you'll notice the difference. During the move I had a few issues with the database. Re...
by Jo
Thu Nov 24, 2011 1:30 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Should my bf keep pictures of his exs ?
Replies: 10
Views: 1516

Re: Should my bf keep pictures of his exs ?

I don't think there's a right or wrong answer to this one because different people have different tolerance levels. It would also depend on how serious the relationship is. I personally would find it completely unacceptable if it was a serious relationship - so I wouldn't be in a serious relationshi...
by Jo
Tue Nov 22, 2011 12:33 pm
Forum: Friends
Topic: Too much of a friend
Replies: 21
Views: 7575

Re: Too much of a friend

Hi again I really do feel for you. I know you say he's kind but he's not being very kind to you is he? Even if he doesn't understand your feelings he should still be willing to take them in to account, he should be concerned about what you're saying, he should be willing to come to a compromise - he...
by Jo
Mon Nov 21, 2011 9:39 am
Forum: Friends
Topic: Too much of a friend
Replies: 21
Views: 7575

Re: Too much of a friend

Wow, I have to say that I'm a bit gob-smacked by all this. These people are being rude, inconsiderate and intrusive - this is not how friends behave. These people are taking advantage of your hospitality. I can't believe that your husband doesn't agree. I'd find these frequent visits unbearable and ...
by Jo
Mon Nov 14, 2011 1:56 pm
Forum: Children
Topic: 20 year old son being a problem
Replies: 6
Views: 3657

Re: 20 year old son being a problem

Apart from the obvious worries about drugs and trying to keep up with his wealthy crowd I think the best thing you can do for him now is to stop bailing him out - otherwise he's never going to learn. I know this is difficult - I've got two children in their 20s and I help them out now and again, but...
by Jo
Fri May 27, 2011 2:05 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Happy Birthday!
Replies: 865
Views: 158762

Re: Happy Birthday!

Happy Birthday Snail - hope you're doing something fun and outrageous! \:D/
by Jo
Thu Apr 07, 2011 1:56 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: WHY IS HE NOT CALLING BACK
Replies: 4
Views: 838

Re: WHY IS HE NOT CALLING BACK

It sounds to me as though you've both been sending each other some very mixed messages. I can understand why you backed off from him after he had talked about moving in together and about marriage, because that's a bit scary when you're in a new relationship! So up until that point I get it. After t...
by Jo
Mon Apr 04, 2011 3:12 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: What does he want/Running out of ideas - UPDATED
Replies: 19
Views: 2269

Re: What does he want/Running out of ideas - UPDATED

I don't totally agree with the others. If I've understood this right It sounds as though you were both happy for it to be casual, but his cuddly nature has confused you. For a man I don't think that being cuddly automatically means that he wants a relationship - it just means that he enjoys the cudd...
by Jo
Thu Mar 03, 2011 8:59 am
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Happy Birthday!
Replies: 865
Views: 158762

Re: Happy Birthday!

Guess who's 1001 today! Wonder if we've got the oldest moderator on the Internet?