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by V23
Sun Oct 02, 2005 10:04 pm
Forum: And the rest...
Topic: The Pill
Replies: 4
Views: 885

If you start taking the pill on the first day of your period then you are protected immediately.
Otherwise it takes 7days before you are protected
by V23
Sun Oct 02, 2005 10:00 pm
Forum: And the rest...
Topic: Moving in...
Replies: 6
Views: 1168

I definately agree with the others, try renting first. Have you lived together before? If not it's definately a good plan to avoid jumping straight into the commitment of a mortgage (find out his irritating habits when you're renting first ) I've been with bf for almost 4years and we're only just ta...
by V23
Sun Oct 02, 2005 9:54 pm
Forum: Physical
Topic: the pill
Replies: 1
Views: 398

You will be able to get the pill and it will be confidential. There are some family planning clinics that offer services for younger women (in my area there's one for under 25's and one for under 20's) so maybe try looking one of those up if you'd feel more comfortable. Just remember that the pill's...
by V23
Sun Oct 02, 2005 8:33 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Flat sharing worries...
Replies: 4
Views: 575

When he lives with them be comforted by the fact that he's going to see all of their irritating habits and basically see them at their worst! Has he given you any reason not to trust him? I know it's hard not to get worried about things like this but if you're both giving you relationship a 'go' the...
by V23
Sun Oct 02, 2005 8:28 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: RE: he won't say it in front of his friends: part two.
Replies: 2
Views: 411

I just wen back and read the first part to this so I'm understaning it a little more now Are you actually dating this guy now (and that's what he not telling his friends)? It's not too much to ask to have honest responses from someone, especially when you've been friends for so long. Have you sat hi...
by V23
Sat Oct 01, 2005 10:47 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Breaking up...
Replies: 10
Views: 1142

Glad you had a good day hon, I hope everything works out for you :D
by V23
Sat Oct 01, 2005 10:12 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Breaking up...
Replies: 10
Views: 1142

Have you discussed it with him today? I know it's hard to let go of relationships, especially when we've been in them for some time but the way he's treating you is unfair. He is expecting you to wait around while he decides if he wants to be with you or not. That's cruel and thoughtless and you des...
by V23
Mon Sep 26, 2005 10:01 pm
Forum: Mental wellbeing
Topic: Anxiety Attacks
Replies: 5
Views: 1004

Anxiety Attacks

So I've been suffering depression for a few years now, have tried counselling/medication and, while neither have been of any great help, I do find that I am able to 'manage' my depression most of the time. Anxiety attacks however are a whole different issue for me. The started about 18months ago aft...
by V23
Mon Sep 26, 2005 3:01 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: G/f going to uni :(
Replies: 29
Views: 2388

i hope one day she realizes whats she's lost!! I'm sure she will. It's still very early on for her at uni and when all of the going out dies down she'll have time to think what she's lost. I think she sounded pretty selfish, yes going to uni is a major thing and people need time to adjust but shutt...
by V23
Mon Sep 26, 2005 2:55 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Inexperienced at 27
Replies: 51
Views: 5874

If you don't feel you can be completely honest then I'd not say anything about not having kissed anyone (although generally I'd say honesty is best, I can understand your reservations). If anyone asks how many sexual partners you've had and you're comfortable with them (i.e someone you'd consider da...
by V23
Sat Sep 24, 2005 11:59 pm
Forum: Cheer me up!
Topic: In need of cheering up!
Replies: 9
Views: 2065

I used to work saturday nights (until 12 every other week) and I hated it - leaving there was the best thing I've ever done (for my sanity at least :lol: )

Glad it's over
by V23
Sat Sep 24, 2005 11:08 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: he's been beating her up and thats not all.......
Replies: 4
Views: 620

It can be hard for women to leave abousive men, often the violence is accompanied by emotional abuse which leaves the woman believing that she can't live without him/it's her fault/she can help him etc.. Did she talk to anyone while she was in hospital about it? She needs to realise that she deserve...
by V23
Sat Sep 24, 2005 10:47 pm
Forum: Physical
Topic: discharge-
Replies: 5
Views: 857

Luvva's right, every girl gets it so I'd try not to worry and if you're comfortable with the guy they probably wont notice.
by V23
Sat Sep 24, 2005 9:37 pm
Forum: Physical
Topic: sex on your period
Replies: 5
Views: 798

Well, I'm not a guy but I know my bf doesn't mind( Obviously it's a bit messy though!). the first time it happened I just mentioned quite early on in the night that he could stay over but that I was on my period so that left it in his court - just mention it to him when he comes round. *remember you...
by V23
Fri Sep 23, 2005 6:31 pm
Forum: Physical
Topic: Vasectomy?
Replies: 5
Views: 827

They can be reversed but there's no guarentee it would work.
It is pretty extreme. I think that you're going to have to be honest with him about your feelings.