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hard to socialise-plz help!

Postby sugar » Thu May 01, 2003 8:05 pm

this may not be considered as a problem but i think it is so here is the thing- me and my best mate go 2 da same school and are really close, we used to hang round with a group of others but stopped as they was always witching about eachother behind their backs, on a school trip we got friendlier with some others in the same year and hang out with them but the same thing happened and b-coz they are coloured they always say things to us like wot u white people doin, so we left, now its just me and her and we feel so lonely and there is no-one else in our year we like, we are always bored and never get the chance to meet any boys, wot can i do? my mate neva wants to go anywhere to meet more people so i cant go neither as i will be alone, plz help. :(
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Postby danielle » Fri May 02, 2003 10:30 am

me and my best mate r like that! have u ever gone to a PG club its an under 18 club lots of lads ur own age go to .there not that expensive but a fun way to spend the night out with ur mate. why dont u have a look about in ur area for some and just go and have a look if u dont like it just go but u never know u might like it and go again.
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Postby lala » Wed May 14, 2003 11:22 pm

i wouldnt worry at all, school is soon over and then theres gonna be a whole lot more new people and a whole lot less of the old people, if people r tht bad its a good idea to stay away and r much better of on your own together, at least you have a close friend and have no witching problems like the others who probs dont trust their own mates at all, its most likely there all very insecure, perhaps regaining their friendhsip using a differant angle could work, its a classic teenage problem and it will most likely get better wit time, just persevere, at least youve got a good judge a character so you cant go far wrong!! good luck!!!
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Postby misatok11 » Thu May 15, 2003 9:01 pm

It can be a problem sometimes, trying to find new friends. Just being yourself is the key and console yourself in the fact you have at least one friend who has stuck by you. Try going to youth clubs or sometimes the answer is just bering seen out. As for boys thats a whole different story...
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