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LONELY AND CONFUSED PLEASE HELP

Postby what_is_life » Mon Jun 16, 2003 4:56 pm

Hey,

Maybe a bit of cheer me up type of advice would go well here. Bear with me on this please.

I have been going out with my Girlfriend for 5 weeks now and i Love her, i know it sounds a bit soon but it's one of those relationships where i felt close to her before we started going out. My Girlfriend lives 7 miles from me and though it doesn't sound that far, it's hard to get transport as my Dad works a lot and buses only pass through my village every hour. So if i want to see her i have to phone her and arrange something.

What really gets to me is that she is always on the go. At weekends she works from 10 - 7 both days and is always knackered afterwards and during the week she is at school from 9 - 4. So i try to see her on a weekday evening but this sometimes proves impossible.

The only sure time i get to see her is after cadets for 5 minutes twice a week but thats only 10 minutes.

Just recently her phone has been turned off, and she is never at home so i cant arrange anything, during the Half term we spent a bit of time together and became really, really close and she told me she wished it could be like that all the time.

As she goes to a different school to me i never know what shes up to, I go through phases where i feel happy and content just because i know i love her and am lucky to do so, but other days when i haven't spoken to her for a while my mind can often begin to wander and although i dont believe she's going behind my back it can get to me. When i get down like this i can't motivate myself to do anything, not even try to see my friends i have a ton of coursework at the moment but i just can't seem to do any of it.

I really miss her and her best friends are always telling me just how much she talks about me and tells them she misses me, i just don't understand if this were true why this relationship seems so one-way at the moment and that it's only me trying to make an effort.

I'm really just after some good advice on the whole subject i mean come on people of ALL ages you know what these sausage hormones can do!
Someone please write back because im Soooo.. Confused!

Thanks Me. x
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Postby mr_bump » Mon Jun 16, 2003 6:00 pm

Albeit you dont see each other as often as youd like everthing else you say leads me to believe u are both happy with each other.

Im in a similar situation with regards to distance but without sounding corny if you feel for each other you can make it work - everyone feels funny when they are first in love , maybne this explains your feelings, it makes you euphoric and you cant get that other person out of your thoughts.

Enjoy it mate :lol:
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