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I See The Dead.

Postby purplepeach » Fri Nov 20, 2009 11:52 pm

Ok... I Know you guys are probebly sick of me by now, but.... I have had this "Problem" for many many years now...
Its finally getting on top of me.
All of my family can "Contact" the dead. I hoped I had gotten away with it, but a few years ago, it started, I knew I would be in for a life, much like my Mothers.
Ever since I was 4 I was able to "See" the "Dead"? (I Know this sounds totally crazy)
At first it was ntohing I worried about, but as the years went by, it got worse and worse and worse. I have a huge fear of ghosts, even though I see them, talk to them, and hear them. I run through my house as if een chased by a axe murderer, as I fear a spirit is coming to use my body as I "Transmission" center. (They talk through peoples bodies)
Everyhouse I enter, its the same, as I know they are watching me. People think I'm a total freak, as I keep telling people that there is someone behind them or somthing.
I also suffer from Insomnia (can't spell sorry) This causes me to be half awake, and half asleep. I am aware of all my suroundings, and this is the worst time as I cant move my body. I just see them out the side of my eye as they loom over me. I cant ask them to leave me be, as I am half asleep. Lol
By now you guys are thinking I'm a total crack pot. But I really don't know what and if there is anything I can to???
This is a major fear, even though I can ask them to leave me alone?!
I mould also like to know if anyone else can see ghosts, talk to ghosts, or even hear them, and what they did, or if they did, anything to make their lives better?
Thanks ever so much guys!!! :D
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Re: I See The Dead.

Postby LemonJuice87 » Sat Nov 21, 2009 1:31 am

Hey,

I just wanted to let you know that I had read this and intend to reply. But it's far to late for me to be thinking of this kind of thing, i'm sorry.

BUT, two things. I WILL reply to you in the morning at some point and I know how you feel.

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When you and your significant other are having an argument, just take all of your clothes off during the spat and stand there. Something is bound to happen!! =]
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Re: I See The Dead.

Postby LemonJuice87 » Sat Nov 21, 2009 2:52 pm

Righty Oooh.

I don't see ghosts. But i feel thier presence.
As long as I can't seem them i'm alright. I dont like to feel thier presence to be honest, but I don't think there is anything I can do about it. Some people are just born with the 'gift'. Why they call it a gift is beyond me, as it's not a very nice gift sometimes.

As far as I know, ghosts wont hurt you. They are just spirits that can't get to where they need to go because of unfinished business, to protect a loved one. Or they just go back to where they were most happy when they were alive. Thats what I have heard from other people. And to a extent I beleieve that.

Since my Grandmother died, I have been able to feel her presence at times when I was living at my Dads still. I would ask for a sign that it was her, and our musical birds used to start the tune (Which is the theme from Love Story) thats how I knew it was her. I felt better knowing it was her. I would say out loud that as much as I loved her, i didnt want to see her as it would freak me out. I used to feel a cold spot either on my face or my shoulder as if she was telling me it was alright and she wouldnt show herself to me.
One of my friends walked me home one night after work and the next day he told me that a person (of the ghostly kind) was standing outside my front door. But it wasnt my Nan, it was my Grandad. I asked my friend to descirbe this person. And he described my Grandad exactly! Down to the kind of glasses he used to wear. I was a little freaked, all these years I thought it was my Nan.
I have now moved out and my ghostly grandfather hasnt followed me. I dont feel his presence anymore at my Dads either, i guess he thinks that i'm safe where I am and that I dont need protecting anymore.

I'm not sure there is anything you can do about it. Apart from asking them politly to leave you alone. You can say that your scared and would like it if they could leave you alone for a while. You have to treat them like they are still alive, so you have to be polite.

I know I'm not much help, but i thought i would share my story just to let you know that there was someone on here that knows how you feel. I really don't know if any of the other members will be able to put some input into this.

Can I ask, you said you can hear them? What do they say? Do they just talk amongst themselves or are they talking specifically to you?
You know you're a mum when the thought of food shopping alone becomes exciting.

When you and your significant other are having an argument, just take all of your clothes off during the spat and stand there. Something is bound to happen!! =]
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Re: I See The Dead.

Postby ThisIsATempo » Mon Nov 23, 2009 1:17 am

It's one of those things really, personally I would love the gift not only so my skepticism diminishes, but because it would be really nice to not only know that you're never alone, but to be a pioneer for that which is paranormal.

Can't say I'm exactly a specialist on this subject; but I can try to advise regardless :)

One of the reasons you may be scared is because you can't understand -why- you're seeing them. For instance, have you ever sat down (if you can really see them) and looked it in the face? Had a conversation?
It's like bungee diving, on the first time you're scared; it's something you've never done and you don't know what you're getting yourself into; but when you've done that first step everything becomes easy!

You say your whole family can talk to them, why not ask your mom to sit in with you to ease the process?

I suggest that you try to talk to them, if they really are ghosts that you see. (I'm not talking as if you're crazy by underlining some doubt I have, I just have no idea what you really experience as I don't know you IRL; it's hard to judge ;)).

If you really, really don't want to go through with that, you could try just listening to your iPod to go to sleep, and ignore them. If you're lucky, they'll just move on to someone else.

But.. You'd be wasting an incredible thing. I personally would love that gift. Imagine the conversations, you'd practically never be alone.
You could learn all kinds of things :)


Good luck!
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Re: I See The Dead.

Postby Bel Bel » Mon Nov 23, 2009 5:28 pm

Get the book by alison dubois books. She is a world reknowned medium form USA. She helped solve hundreds of murders and there is now a series called "medium" that is based around her life

I think her books will help you understand more and in oe book she talks about how she shut off from the other side for many years

I beleive she only has three books so it might well help to read them all

Also as someone else suggested ask your family how they cope and what they do to deal with it
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Re: I See The Dead.

Postby purplepeach » Tue Nov 24, 2009 9:51 pm

LemonJuice87 wrote:Righty Oooh.
Can I ask, you said you can hear them? What do they say? Do they just talk amongst themselves or are they talking specifically to you?

They talk amongst themselves. But I cant make out what they are saying exactly most of the times. I do listen to my Ipod to sleep, but they kind of know I'm not listening to them, so they make my room, drop to 10 degrees. I can even see my own breath after that.
If I curl up and keep warm, they move things, and touch my face and arms. Eventually, Im so exhausted, I fall asleep. But its kind of getting out of control.
My nieghbours house used to belong to an old woman. She died of a stroke on the toilet. (or so she told me) O_O She also told me her name was Elizabeth, and she was born in 1930. I'm also haunted by a boy, who died when he was only 14 years old. He was murdered just outside my home. He tells me he is called Joe. He and Elizabeth talk most nights. I have asked them how many other "spirits" are in my room, or haunting me. They answered 5, but they couldnt get their names. :oops: Everyone must thing Im out of my mind, but I just dont know how else to tell you guys ](*,)
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Re: I See The Dead.

Postby RagDoll » Wed Nov 25, 2009 11:06 am

sorry to sound so cynical, but are you sure you don't just have a vivid imagination?!
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Re: I See The Dead.

Postby jen » Wed Nov 25, 2009 12:37 pm

I'm sorry but i was going to say something similar as ragdoll.

What with you falling in love with a girl that you were so sue you wanted to be with and were pretty much sure yuo were a lesbian and then meeting a 30 year old man who you are sure is the one for you etc

Maybe the stress of all the recent events has taken it's toll?

Or did this happen before all the recent stuff that's been going on?

I'm not a firm believer in the supernatural (although it oes fascinate me) as i'm more of a "if i can see it/experience it, i'll believe it but not until then" so i'm probably not the best person for giving advice on the subject, although as someone else mentioned, why not speak to your mum about it. If she has the same thing then maybe she can give you ways of controlling it.
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Re: I See The Dead.

Postby purplepeach » Wed Nov 25, 2009 5:05 pm

This has been happening, since as long as I could remember. And those other topics, are nothing to do with this. :evil:
Tbh you cant judge me on this because of somthing else? D: :roll:
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Re: I See The Dead.

Postby jen » Wed Nov 25, 2009 5:15 pm

Now hold on a second

Firstly i wasn't judging. I don't judge anyone on here regardless of what there problem is.

All i was trying to do was maybe suggest that if it happened before all of this then you could maybe speak to your mum about it (seeing as she's been there before) and if it only started happening more recently then it may be because you've had so much going on that your head is full of things that may be causing you to imagine it.

At the end of the day we've got to be able to ask questions if we want to give the best advice we feel we can offer.
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Re: I See The Dead.

Postby Sebastian » Wed Nov 25, 2009 7:14 pm

Hello purplepeach, (again) :D
you ahve alot of problems, and I hope I can help! :D
Firstly, there is no need to get angry at Jen, if youo ask for advice, then you have to expect an answer, and wether that be stern or not. (sorry Jen) :D
Secondly, have you tried looking for answers on the internet?
Thirdly, Have you tried a medium? or somthing like that?
ou never know what these could turn up! :D
I dont know much about things like this, except what I have read in books.
You say you can talk to two of the 7 spirits? Well, ask them to look for their light, as you are not their light anymore. If they find their light, tell them to walk into as their family are waiting for them on the other side. a hand will be waiting to take them over, :D That SHOULD help your problem.
Some spirits are grounded here, and cant find a light, so you will have to ask them to move on. If this isnt working, then Im stuck on what else I can advise you. ](*,)
Anyway I hope this does help! :D
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Re: I See The Dead.

Postby shell » Sat Jan 09, 2010 11:15 pm

hi there.....i personaly think that you should ask them to leave you alone until your a little older and have a little more life experience behind you , and of course when your ready!!
hope this helps.
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Re: I See The Dead.

Postby Millenia » Sun Jan 17, 2010 6:37 pm

Sorry to be blunt but,
believing in ghosts would be against the way i think. I don't disbelieve them, but im not religious or spiritual so to believe in ghosts would to believe there is something more after people die...when i don't really think about it.

To provide evidence for such a thing is kinda non existant. If i were to say to someone i hear people talking to me it would probably be classified as schizophrenia.
Plus what you describe is something that comes out of films, im not pointing a finger at you nor branding you a liar but if ghosts in films were actually all cats then i wonder if you would be saying to me that cats talk to you, the same with telling a ghost to 'look into the light'.
Jen says you have posted before about a girl and a man who you were in love with: you could have a chemical imbalance that gives you an overactive imagination.
Plus why do they want to talk to you? If they can talk to people why not try to be talking to someone they know like a loved one?

I don't really understand it to be honest :o

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Re: I See The Dead.

Postby Jo » Tue Jan 26, 2010 9:52 am

I know this is an old post but just wanted to post some info about sleep paralysis because it's relevant to what's happening to purplepeach at night, it's not supernatural and it's fairly common...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleep_paralysis

http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/2009/ ... -paralysis

http://www.stanford.edu/~dement/paralysis.html

I used to have very strange vivid dreams and sleep paralysis when I was stressed, but although they were very scary I never attributed them to anything supernatural. I recognised that they happened more when I was extremely tired and worried about something. They stopped when I sorted out my sleeping routine and I haven't had one for a few years.
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Re: I See The Dead.

Postby Bel Bel » Mon Feb 01, 2010 4:42 pm

My daughter had a few incidents of petite mal and she had temporary paralysis and nasty flashes which I suppose could be refered to as dreams although I don't think thats what purple peaches is suffering from
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