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Chaotic mind - work and gf

Postby alphamach » Tue Feb 21, 2012 5:59 pm

My mind is so chaotic right now
My relationship has not been the same with my gf - she has been so different.
I want it to be how it was before.

Lately it seems she is moody, manipulative and disrespectful.
And then all of a sudden she is being really nice.
I am so confused

Work also is not easy.
That is also causing me stress.

Basically my energy is so low and Im not sure whats best to do in my relationship.
I am not focussed on work which is not good and I just feel too messed up to do anything.

Is my gf doing all this on purpose? would love to get into her mind and know what she is thinking.
Does she care? does she not?
is she playing one massive game?

wish work was easier too.

I feel like there is way too much for me to improve on.
I want to be so good at everything especially earning a good income and relationships.
And it feels like I am so far behind that its impossible to catch up.
It feels so depressing and frustrating!
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Re: Chaotic mind - work and gf

Postby highlandcow » Tue Feb 21, 2012 9:23 pm

Your post was laid out in a really nice way...I read it like a poem.

What's going on in your girlfriend's life? Is it possible that she may be going through some stuff too and that's why she's behaving in this way.

Even so, she probably needs to be more aware of what's going on with you. Have you talked?

Remember we can't be good at everything all the time, we all go through rough patches. Go easy on yourself. :D
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Re: Chaotic mind - work and gf

Postby snail » Tue Feb 21, 2012 11:08 pm

Why don't you tell your girlfriend that you don't feel your relationship is the same as before, and you'd like it to be, and see what she says?
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Re: Chaotic mind - work and gf

Postby Bel Bel » Wed Feb 22, 2012 2:29 pm

I agree you need to communicate with your g/f
Possibly if you get that sorted you will feel better at work
You have a jobb and that is good in this climate

You say you are falling behnind. who are you comapring yourelf to, there is no set rules about how these things should be?
Lots of people start relationships at older age for all sorts of reasons and careers too
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