Jess, I've always thought you talked so much sense, me darling; I think you would do excellently at some career to do with people, like counselling or such? Maybe I should pm you something to that effect!
Sorry, feeling a bit emotional at the moment. Today the wife had to tell the littl'uns that daddy had gone to heaven, because they knew something was wrong when their granny and grandad were crying. The four-year old asked if she could phone daddy in heaven! Mummy had to tell her that she couldn't. "But daddy's got a mobile!", the little girl told her. I don't know how mummy didn't collapse in a heap.
I'll shut up in a minute, I suspect the other mods call me The Rambling Mod

- I just wanted to add my voice to the PPers who have thought about suicide before - if we're honest, loads of us have been at that point. I'd say to the PPers who think that "nobody understands, so how can you preach to me" - my reason for turning back from it (it's years ago now, and I'm still here) was purely because of the people who would have had to deal with it; I'm more convinced than ever that I was right.
*Pee shuts up"
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