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Postby x_jazi_x » Mon Oct 22, 2007 1:21 pm

Well, i've just started a new school and love it.
but, theres this one girl who added me on bebo and then msn, and we always talk on msn, but we never talk at school!

and when i want to, it just feels more embarassing and akward talking to her up close than on the internet.
So, 2 questions.

1-is that normal? :/ can i stop being like that?

thanks alot. =]
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Postby HappyGoLucky » Mon Oct 22, 2007 1:36 pm

Hey x_jazi_x!

Haha! I thought I was the only one. Yeap! I get that trouble all the time xD. So...

a) It IS normal (unless we are both abnormal xD)
b) I'll be waiting for it!

Sorry couldn't provide an answer for b but I'm also waiting for it!
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Postby Xpose soph 07 » Tue Oct 23, 2007 10:24 am

Hi Jazi,

Cant say Iv ever experinced that myself, but then I dont rle use msn much anymore..

But why dont you just make a joke out of it?

Next time you walk by her or see her n skol just say summin light hearted like 'so are we ever gna speak then , or is it jus an internet thing' and laugh about it.

You'll most probably find she is quite shy or summin and doesnt no wat to say to you face to face so finds it easier on line

If you dont want to do this, then maybe jus chat to her on msn and say you no we talk alot how bout we go for lunch tomo or summin, you obviously has lots to talk on msn so ul have tons to say face to face!
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Postby Brighter » Tue Oct 30, 2007 10:46 pm

I find that sometimes!
But what I do is just ask about homework, or what do we have next lesson, something like that.
Yeah it's not very interesting! But it starts the bowl rolling.

And she could be really shy so you might have to make more of an effort and make the both of you comfortable speaking to each other
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Postby violet » Wed Jan 02, 2008 9:03 am

hmmm... from what i see... haha.. i just think you're alittle shy thats all... hey... i have the same problem as you sometimes... but i just get over it... really fast... my secret just walk up to her and say hey... probably in no time you guys will be talking non-stop :)

all the best ^^
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Postby streetglow_cruiser » Wed Jan 02, 2008 12:17 pm

i've had the same issue before...don't worry bout it it's perfectly normal.
often as soon as you cross the first little awquard bit of saying hi things will just flow...perhaps say something like hey...sorry my msn loged off last night....internet problems....

remember she's probably just as nervous as you are.
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Postby W00p!!! » Mon Jan 21, 2008 7:36 pm

Yeah it is awquard but eventually a conversation will set u off and ull talk
Just make an effort and talk to them u need as many friends as you can get xoxoxox
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It's normal :)

Postby Phoenix91 » Sat Mar 22, 2008 11:50 pm

I've gone through that too.

One day a guy in my year that I'd never spoke to added me online and we got on amazingly well, but didn't talk in person for months.
I just invited him out with me and my mates after school and we got talking.
I found out that he was just as shy as I was.
I'm now his girlfriend... But that's a different story.

You could find out her interests online, then use them in conversations face to face.
Maybe she's shy.

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Postby charlotte128 » Sun Mar 23, 2008 3:36 am

heya i was like that at first but now we have dinner and everything! i think its because you generaly get used to that person the more you speak to them online so you start to feel comfier speaking to them more then you just automatically start speaking when you see that person at school. x
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