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=[ help plz?

PostPosted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 1:19 pm
by x_jazi_x
Kay, so recently i started an all girls school, and LOVE evreyone in my form.
But theres this one girl beth, that i really don't like.
she's so rude to me.
the other day I went to sit with a few of my girls from my class coz this girl asked me to, and she gave me a really dirty look and said 'what are you doing here?'

and we had to go register the other day, and she said 'what are you doing up here, you;re not in our form'.

and it was Mufti (non uniform) and she didnt exactly look nice, but i still said to her 'oh you look really nice beth' and she said thanks, but after she was looking me up and down as if eww she looks really horrible. if you know wat look i mean?

its really getting me down, because she says it in front of people and its kinda embarassing, she makes me feel like i dont belong there.

and when i went to go and sit with them the other day, she started whispering to this girl and they both looked at me.

its making me upset, because the girls she hangs around with are so lovely, but she puts me right off them. =[ what shall i do?

i'm so sorry if its really long!

PostPosted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 1:44 pm
by HappyGoLucky
I think she's probably jealous of you. I don't think you should bother with people like Beth. She just wants to bring you down because she's probably jealous of you and wants attention!

I think you should just ignore her rude comments and nasty looks! Talk to her politely though, and don't show how upset and irritated you are at her rudeness because she'll probably be glad that you're upset.

Hope this helps! :)

PostPosted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 1:47 pm
by x_jazi_x
Thanks. =]

when she said i wasnt in their form thw other day, i jsut ignored her and she said to me 'im talking to you' and i just said to her 'it's obviousl i am in your form' and walked away. she looked quite annoyed.

so, i'll jsut remember that, theres no point being like her, i'll just ignore her. =]

thankyouuu. :)


PostPosted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 1:48 pm
by HappyGoLucky
That showed her that you're not one to be pushed around! =D> :D

Glad I could help! :D

PostPosted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 1:35 pm
by Bel Bel
make sure you keep responding in a dignified manor without being rude as you did the other day so she doesn't keep doing it. I think she will get bored
she is obviously jealous of you
don't bother being especially nice to her just be curtious

PostPosted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 2:47 pm
by Browneyes
I agree with the others people like that are not worth getting worked up over. The girl obviously has nothing better to do with her time.

PostPosted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 5:15 pm
by x_jazi_x
Bєтн ...dude. says:
how many contacts doo yuu havee
jazz..=] 5Days.. ;] says:
what, online?
Bєтн ...dude. says:
no in total
Bєтн ...dude. says:
klike do you have friends or nt
jazz..=] 5Days.. ;] says:
ohhh idk coz there all in groups and i cba count them lol.
jazz..=] 5Days.. ;] says:
uhh yeah... ;/
Bєтн ...dude. says:
jazz..=] 5Days.. ;] says:
jazz..=] 5Days.. ;] says:
whyyyy did you do that face ? lol..
Bєтн ...dude. says:
coz i wnted to ALRITE.!
Bєтн ...dude. says:
goodness sake
jazz..=] 5Days.. ;] says:
god ok

edited by lilmissespana - please don't swear, even from direct quoting

PostPosted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 5:16 pm
by x_jazi_x
Ohh btw the face she did asone with rasied eyebrow

PostPosted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 4:34 pm
by Bel Bel
i would block her and when she ask why tell her you don't like her attitude and if it improves then you would gladly add her back to your friends list
This will show her she is not getting to you and you will also be willing to be freinds if she could be more reasonable

PostPosted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 12:38 pm
by DJ
I would block her msn.

It makes me question whether these other girls you say are nice, are actually nice. If they see Beth being nasty to you, what sort of people are they that they won't say something to her, and tell Beth that she's being a nasty piece of work?

I'm going through the same thing at the moment, I've fallen out with alot of my friends because I'm sick of the "clicke" and their immature attidtude to them. What I've done it just completely cut myself off from them. I know you probably won't want to do that, but you could speak to these other girls, and just explain to them that Beth upsets you. If they've got a heart, they'll see you're a nice person and dump Beth. if they don't. Find some new friends.

PostPosted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 9:55 pm
by nufcbabe99
She sounds like a right witch.. You should put your status to Away when she's on msn.. Because then you can ignore her and you have an excuse to.. You were Away, Right ?

Just try not to talk to her when your with your other friends.. If she speaks to you.. Just answer as simply as you can.. She will soon get bored !

I hope it goes ok.. Nobody deserves that.. It infuriates me so much !

Best of luck