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not happy here, or there

Postby Raven » Fri Nov 02, 2007 12:53 am

I'm fed up wherever I am. At home it's miserable, no prospects. Here at uni I'm equally miserable and my boyfriend is getting on my nerves a LOT.

Just felt like a mini rant x
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Postby HappyGoLucky » Sat Nov 03, 2007 11:03 am

Why don't you join a club or something to keep yourself busy? And why is your boyfriend getting on your nerves by the way?
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Re: not happy here, or there

Postby retrochav » Sun Nov 04, 2007 12:19 pm

You sound as though you are depressed, or at least heading toward deppression.

Ideally, speaking with student support may turn things around, or your GP if the feelings are swirling around you like a fog wherever you go.

You may wish to try this method which gives me focus when i feel low. I write a list of things i want to achieve through the next twelve months. Yes some will be big aims, but most should be small achievable things, like paddle in the sea, watch a play, dye your hair - whatever you think about doing but never quite get around to.

Ticking each objective through the year gives a sense of achievment. You are clearly an achiever already. You have worked hard to get into uni, you are keeping a relationship together, and this is against a background of feeling unsettled. So you will achieve much if you boost your self worth
whatever your problem someone else has been there and bears the scars.
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Postby Bel Bel » Mon Nov 05, 2007 4:12 pm

maybe being with your boyfriend is bringing you down
If he bothers you that much why don't you dump him?
what particularly is getting you down?
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