Just feeling a little down...

[HappyGoLucky]

This girl who is one of my cousin's best friends knows me quite well since we were in the same group in camp. However, I found out there was this "movie marathon" thing going on today and I wasn't invited. I know that I may have been one of the others who were left out but I just feel a little hurt.

It could be because my cousin asked her not to, as my cousin has this strange thing about me. (see post in Family, And the Rest) My cousin is sometimes "okay" with me but sometimes appears sulky when she sees me and shows her "dislike" to me.

I know I may be one of the others left out but still...

Anyway, I just felt like saying it out. Just a little hurt and down.

[pink stripes]

hiii -W3N-

Sorry to hear that you feel hurt and upset about - why not just go to the next one?

Or next social event with them?

--x

[HappyGoLucky]

Yea...but what if it's the same organisers or something and I'm not invited?

And I don't plan this kind of outings by myself, I prefer to plan it with others only I don't know who to plan it with!

My cousin came with us for dinner and she told me about it, saying who came and how fun it was there etc. And a great friend of mine smsed me and he was like : It is great !

And she also told me another great friend of mine was invited but then he couldn't make it. She told me he really really wanted to come etc.

I just feel left out and for goodness sake! She is my cousin and at least DON'T leave me out like that! I guess she planned it with her friend because well, they are best friends!

[retrochav]

That event has happened and cant be changed now, but you can change future outcomes.

You may have tried before, but maybe talking to your cousin when she is being decent may help. Try telling her that you enjoy the friendship and hope that you can build on it. If she turns funny, ask her why she is! Often it makes someone reflect when their nastiness requires explanation.

You have a very good friend, so could you organise something together. Its really just a case of setting a date, inviting people, and doing it. Accept that some people will decline, but those who go are responsible for their own feelings, so enjoy what you do without worrying about the happinesss of others - and do invite your cousin - two wrongs wont make a right.