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Feeling bad...

Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 9:05 am
by Weasley
Just got back to work from a brilliant break away seeing family and friends...
I was ill all over Christmas up until New that spoilt my holiday.
For everyone that knows broke up with my fiancee just before the holidays and have got back and feel worse than ever...just need a bit of cheering up I guess...

Re: Feeling bad...

Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 10:59 am
by rufio89
how are things there Weasley? Have you properly broken up now? Have you spoken to him at all since you last updated?

You'll be ok. You did the best thing for you, and you have all of PP here for you xxxx

Re: Feeling bad...

Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 11:18 am
by Weasley
I think we have yes, I just don't see us getting back together now but I do miss him despite all the bad things he did...
I can't get used to going out and being single again! It's soooo wierd!

Re: Feeling bad...

Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 11:47 am
by Bel Bel
it will take time but don't be in a rush to get back out there again, it's always best to make sure you put the last relationship behind you properly
don't forget to concentrate on the bad stuff when you are having a weak moment, it's always tempting to put on those rose tinted specs when you hear that certain song etc

Re: Feeling bad...

Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 12:05 pm
by rufio89
of course you'll miss him, like you said, he wasnt all bad! But focus on the bad in the short term. His behaviour was getting worse and just think how out of control it could potentially have gotten a few years down the line. You dont want to end up another statisic.

nd liek BelBel said, dont jump into anything new! Youve got a lot to sort out with the ex, you need to sort out the house and mortgage and stuff, so just make the most of having time away from his temper and maybe renew some old friendships.

and dont forget, PP is ALWAYS here..