Me and my sister have always been close even though she quite a bit older than me and lives an hour away. Although recently she doesnt seem to keep in touch or even care about me anymore.
She split up with her husband at christmas and I've always told her that if she needed to talk to me or whatever then I'd be glad to listen and try and help. But all shes done is borrow 200 quid off me in January, promising to pay me back and she hasnt mentioned it since.
She never replies to my texts asking how she is unless it suits her. She always has credit because her new fella pays for it so thats no excuse. She never rings me anymore to chat. She hasnt been over to see me for months.
Last weekend her daughter came over to stay and we decided to go clubbing with my sis (her mum) and her mums mates. My sister didnt say more than hello to me all night, except for this incident which has really hissed me off.
I was standing with them all on the dancefloor and this guy came up to me, grabbed my ass and put his hand on my hip. I took his hand off my hip and told him to go away. He kept trying to apologise but I was annoyed and just told him to go away. I wasnt being horrible but maybe I was being over the top but she knows I do not like men touching me because of my past.
When he left she said 'Stop it now' with a look on her face that made me feel like I was in the wrong for not wanting his unwanted attention. She was giving me exsasperated looks all night, like she didnt want me there and I was relieved when the night was over.
I really do not know what her problem is with me. Iv not changed the way I interact with her or anything. But after what happened the other night I feel really angry with her and to be honest I cant be bothered trying anymore.
What would you do? Should I just leave it or let her know how I feel? And do you think that I was in the wrong the other night?