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HELP! am I normal?

PostPosted: Tue May 15, 2007 7:01 pm
by katie01
Hey all the ppl i know are always going on about their sexlives and stuff (im still a virgin) and for some reason the concept of having sex really does not appeal to me. It worries me, cos i dont think its normal to not be interested in sex atall! Ive had alot of boyfriends so its not that fact im not used to boys or anything... i just dont want anyone going down there! Im also worried about it hurting during sex and if i'll die a virgin! someone help!

PostPosted: Wed May 16, 2007 6:38 am
by brfc
hey there dont worry about not wanting sex yet. i was the same at your age. when the times right it will come naturally. just enjoy yourself and try not too worry about things.

PostPosted: Mon May 21, 2007 1:07 pm
by streetglow_cruiser
i wouldn't worry if i was you hun, i didn't have sex til i was 17, it's not i didn;t have the opertunity to, i just didn't want to. i have turned out fine and am now happily engaged to my fiance who was the 5th person i have ever had sex with.

PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 5:02 pm
by Neesy
You are perfectly normal. I didn't have sex until I was 19.

You will probably find that half of what your friends are talking about is all made up anyway!

PostPosted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 1:12 pm
by lusciouslips007
hey don't worry! you've got ur whole life ahead of u. Just enjoy yourself. lol. don't get pressurized into doing something u don't want to, just coz everyone else is doing it. When the time's right, it will happen...

PostPosted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 1:26 pm
by HappyGoLucky
You are totally normal! Don't do it because everyone else is. Just wait till the time is right with a special someone. In the meantime, just enjoy yourself. :)

PostPosted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 12:01 am
by FocusOnMe
Your perfectly normal. Your attitude to sex is wise. People who lose their virginity at a young age end up regretting it. I was 17 when i first had sex, i loved my boyfriend at the time but i would have rather of waited!
It'll happen when your ready. Don't worry about other people and what they might be doing!

PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 4:59 pm
by lilessexgal
hey hun it just means your not ready yet. which isnt a bad thing! just relax when your ready you will know it untill then just carry on how you are!


PostPosted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:11 am
by DoodlePlex
I'm 19 going on 20 and am still a virgin. It just happens when it happens, I guess. But you're definitely normal, no worries.

PostPosted: Mon May 05, 2008 9:32 am
by essyiii
Don't feel pressured by the people around you. Just do what's best for you =)

PostPosted: Wed Aug 20, 2008 2:14 pm
by rufio89
dont worry love - there's more to life than sex, and while sex is a wonderful thing, you've got many years ahead of you to have sex.

Im sure in a few years, you'll be interested in sex.