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I Need Distraction Please Help Me!

PostPosted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 12:52 am
by monkeyhands
Ok Well thers this guy i used to fancy and hes hurt me that many times that i just want to cut him out my life for good! the only problem is for a short while we wer best friends and hed call me everyday. any way about a week a go we had this arguement over wether i liked his gf or not. stupid right? i said i did and why should he care what i think of her at the end of the day it aint gonna effect ther relationship. anyway we kind of made up but it feels like theres a huge rock between us he neva comes out anymore with me the answers always maybe or im busy and were at different colleges now so i might not see him again if he continues and he knows this but i just cant be doing with it anymore. so ive stopped answering his calls and his texts ive blocked him on msn but the calls are getting harder to ignore i cant talk to him because i know i wont have the guts to tell him why ive blanked him this past week and rejected everysingle call. i feel mean doing it but hes put me through so much rubbish i cant handle it anymore. if youve read my other posts its the guy who liked the asian girl and thats now his gf seeing as how she changed her sexuality randomly:S all he does is talk about her and its gettin to the point were it feels like he is trying to make me jelaus and ive hung up on him on numerous occasions because of it. im fed up of being his back swing, im tierd of bein his best friend, im sick of feeling anything for him, i dont wanna hear about his girlfriend and although everytime his name is mentioned i feel guilty i cant think of a better way to handle the situation without cutting him off completely! and thats prooving to be harder as the days go on. any help?
xxx

Re: I Need Distraction Please Help Me!

PostPosted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 1:14 am
by captainf
All I can suggest is basically being honest with him, if you cant say it to him put it in a text or a letter. Atleast then he will hear you out and have to read it instead of interupting you. He will also know then why you have been ignoring him. Honesty is the best policy.

Re: I Need Distraction Please Help Me!

PostPosted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 10:04 am
by Bel Bel
You can get your phone provider to block his number
He has a new g/f and has been insensitive asking you what you think bearing in mind your history. He may find it impossible to meet up as the new g/f may be jealous you. Either way by never wnating to meet up he has proved the friendship isn't that important to him.
Block his number and move on

Re: I Need Distraction Please Help Me!

PostPosted: Thu May 27, 2010 3:46 pm
by lohang
Better still get a new sim card and number and share it round friends who you can trust, you shouldn't have to put up with this. I say this as your phone provider will only block his number, there's nothing stopping him from using a payphone for example

Also tell him you no longer wish to have contact with him.