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what to do about my boyfriends parents

Postby ditzyme » Sun Dec 07, 2003 5:24 pm

hey guys! this is my first time doing all this, so here it goes. I resently got with a guy that is a little bit older than me, by 4 years. I am 15 and he is 19. My parents don't really like the fact that he's 19 but there dealing with it. His parents don't like it either and it feels like they hate me. I was dealing with it until i found out that his little sister doesn't like me either! I really like being with my boyfriend and i don't want his parents to try and seperate us. If anyone has any suggestions on a way for me to win them over please write back.
thanks,
Shannon
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Postby depman » Sun Dec 07, 2003 5:33 pm

If you really like each other and their are genuine feelings there you need them to see that you are both sensible
(ie no sex)

I met my wife when she was 15
We now have been together 4 years so have hope

As for the little sister I feel there is not a lot you are going to be able to do at the moment
Winning over the parents is what must come first then it might help
Just both be sensible and calm and you never know 8)
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Postby ditzyme » Sun Dec 07, 2003 8:59 pm

thanks for the replay depman
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Postby sovs » Sun Dec 07, 2003 9:01 pm

Hi there as my husband (depman) said i met him when i was 15 and he was 27.
My mum was worried at first but was fine once she met, and got to know him.
The only problem i had was with my brother who is the same age as depman. He hasnt spoken to me since we started dating so its been 4 years since i last saw him.

As long as you both like eachother it shouldnt matter what people think, my guess is your friends are jealous.

Good luck to you
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Postby cheese100 » Sun Dec 07, 2003 9:04 pm

hi,your parents will come round eventually when they see that you are not fooling around and that you are serious you should not worry about his family because it is you and him that matters.cheese xx
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Re: what to do about my boyfriends parents

Postby problemguru » Sun Jul 17, 2005 10:26 am

hiya
i think you should let your boyfriend's parents have there say and y they dont think you should be togetherthen you have your say

i think you could win his sister over by taking her shopping with you if shes the same age maybe to see a movie


hope it helps

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Postby Rock_Queen » Sun Jul 17, 2005 10:38 am

this was ages ago, keep a tab on the date it was posted!
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