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losing a friend

Postby missperfect » Thu Jan 15, 2004 6:36 pm

hello,
ive been away for a long time due to privacy issues....the issue is i dont get any. but that isn't as big a problem for me as this:

ive known this great guy for ages whom i got close to as a friend. we started talking on the phone and shared a lot but hid this from our friends because they dont get on and it would create some :evil: . until recently i was able to share everything with him. until, that is, he asked me out!!! now dont get me wrong. he is a great guy and i know a lot of girls who would love to go out with him he is sweet and has been the best of friends, but im having a lot of problems right now which would take too long to spell out but one includes a fear of relationship due to one ending in a messed up life. and i tried to explain. he got :oops: and asked me to keep it a secret. which i have for months. but since that day we hardly talk or even look at each other when we bump into each other in town. ive lost a very good friend and im afraid because, he knows too much about me and could always tell someone else.


help! i dunno wat to say/do/think/feel

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Postby Fidel » Thu Jan 15, 2004 8:17 pm

me and my gf had this problem at first but u have to continue to tell him that he's a great guy and not let him down badly - say ur not ready coz maybe one day u will be ready for a relationship like that

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Postby cheese100 » Thu Jan 15, 2004 8:47 pm

Just tell him how you feel and try to talk about the things you normally do to try to make it the same as before maybe go somewhere.cheese xx
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