are you bothered by your partner looking at 'naughty stuff'?

[realisticmale87]

Looking at alot of problems on this site there seems to be a very common one, so just to ask why do women have such a issue with blokes watching and enjoying porn???

[peecee]

Hun, I think the threads all tell you why women think it's such a big deal!

[kerrie24]

I wouldnt have a problem with it,honestly.My partner doesnt look at the stuff anyway,unless we fancy watching it together,but if he did I wouldnt give a monkeys as long as he didnt prefer it to doing the real thing lol

[realisticmale87]

Yeah but they go on about betrayal and mistrust in alot of them, and even talking about leaving there husbands coz they had a cheeky one!! strips clubs i can see y people wouldnt like it, but there is a big differance between males and females when it come to these things, men sex does not really have much of a link to love like it does women its more of a case just getting off. Dont get me wrong been with someone u love is better but generally wheather its affairs porn etc its all a case of getting of. like if men cheat its def wrong but its basically a wa8k but someone else there.

fell free to disagree lol

[snail]

Men and women have the same basic feelings about sex - it's a hugely outdated view that for women it's all about love and for men just a biological drive, and it was never true anyway, merely the product of our patriarchal culture.

[RagDoll]

Agree with Snail. Everyone has different attitudes re: sex. Some men will only be in it for the sex, but equally some men will only sleep with people they're in love with. Same goes for women. It's not a gender thing, it's just down to the individual.