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Being Single

PostPosted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 9:49 pm
by snail
I find both David Mitchell and Robert Webb very sexy but in different ways. When watching Peep Show or Mitchell and Webb I swing from wanting one more than the other, then back again.

Can you tell someone here's been single for 8 months? :roll:

I am going to get my legs slapped by the other mods for taking this off-topic too :oops:

Re: 10 things about you

PostPosted: Wed Oct 21, 2009 2:41 am
by captainf
No shame in being single for 8 months. I've been single a few years and its okay. More important to be with the right person than just anyone, thats my outlook.

Re: 10 things about you

PostPosted: Wed Oct 21, 2009 8:35 am
by dipsydoodlenoodle
captainf wrote:More important to be with the right person than just anyone, thats my outlook.


It's so right though.

Re: 10 things about you

PostPosted: Fri Oct 23, 2009 10:17 pm
by captainf
Yeah, sometimes you have to sit back and see a potential partner for what they are rather than just thinking 'wow they're great' and getting with them without really knowing their values.

Re: 10 things about you

PostPosted: Mon Oct 26, 2009 12:11 pm
by sazzled
captainf wrote:No shame in being single for 8 months. I've been single a few years and its okay. More important to be with the right person than just anyone, thats my outlook.


Tis true! I was single for 2 years before I met Pete! :D

Re: 10 things about you

PostPosted: Mon Oct 26, 2009 3:09 pm
by captainf
Aww yeah and you guys are very good and happy together. :D

Re: 10 things about you

PostPosted: Mon Oct 26, 2009 6:57 pm
by everloney
umm what do you guy define as single? as in no dates, no men, nothing? or as in a few dates, short relationships (3 months) that didn't work out etc? If its the second one i have been single for 4 years.... umm thats depressing

Re: 10 things about you

PostPosted: Mon Oct 26, 2009 9:04 pm
by rufio89
Id say you're single unless you refer to each other as boyfriend/girlfriend (or obviously husband/wife)... in my opinion.

Re: 10 things about you

PostPosted: Mon Oct 26, 2009 9:26 pm
by captainf
No, I havent been involved with anyone.

Re: 10 things about you

PostPosted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 12:13 am
by everloney
Well the guy from the summer i referred to as my boyfriend but he wasn't feeling it seeing as he cheated.... so prob not, i had two that were referred to as boyfriends in 2007, maybe i've been single for 2 years then.... that sucks

Re: 10 things about you

PostPosted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 12:19 am
by captainf
Dont worry. As I advised before just use your time being single productively - get over the past hurt, get comfortable on your own and just learn to enjoy your life. Once you do this you can then think about being with someone else because then your mind is clear of the past boyfriends who did you wrong.

Re: Being Single

PostPosted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 7:17 pm
by snail
I've moved the above posts from the "10 Things About You" thread, because it seems to have become a discussion in its own right and it was interrupting the 10 Things thread (and in the hope that the other mods won't notice it was me who took it off-topic in the first place :oops: ).

Re: Being Single

PostPosted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 8:12 pm
by Jo
snail wrote:I find both David Mitchell and Robert Webb very sexy but in different ways.


I love Peep Show sooooo much! But I don't fancy either of them.

As for being single; I think it's good for you! I was single for about 7yrs while my children were young (apart from a couple of very brief flings that I wouldn't class as relationships). I didn't want to introduce any men into their lives and I was quite happy on my own.

Re: Being Single

PostPosted: Wed Oct 28, 2009 10:18 am
by RagDoll
I have to agree with Jo, I love Peep Show, but I don't find either of them remotely attractive!

Re: Being Single

PostPosted: Wed Oct 28, 2009 6:22 pm
by all_apologies
snail wrote:I find both David Mitchell and Robert Webb very sexy but in different ways.


Ohhh dear! :sick: