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im kicked out of my house.... AGAIN

Postby jampot » Wed Mar 26, 2008 4:09 pm

my stepdad has thrown me out of the house. it happens a lot but this time is for good.

i staying at friends houses atm but its just not enough. i have hardly any clothes and no money.

im not a bad person!! i didnt do anything wrong, he just went crazy because i asked my mum what i could make for my tea (he refuses to make me food, and my mum works alot) and he started screaming at me!!

so i started making ready brek and he switched the microwave off and threw me out.

what do i do?????????????????????????

im not upset im angry!! :evil:
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Postby Bel Bel » Wed Mar 26, 2008 5:45 pm

How old are you?
Do you go to school or uni?
Have you any relatives you can stay with?
Does your mum have anything to say about this situation?
Sorry but I need more info to help you
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Postby jampot » Fri Mar 28, 2008 12:41 pm

i'm 17, and i cant stay with relatives, because it will cause arguments in the family.
i'm at college, and my mum just let everything happen!

i spoke to her yesterday and she said it was because she wanted me to calm down. i went home to try and sorrt things out and stayed there last night, but she said i have to be punished for staying out for so long, when i was kicked out in the first place!!

i dont think im home this weekend....
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Postby Bel Bel » Tue Apr 01, 2008 10:42 am

Can you ask your mum to write down what it is that you do to cause problems
You write a list of things that trouble you too
Both take a day or so to digest the others list
Then sit down together and agree to compromise. Agree if it gets heated to walk away and come back to it an hour or so after so it doesn't turn into a row
You have to take some responsibility for the thing as your mum rights on the list
Do you do nay chores around the house? Offer to help out with things so you show you wnat to be an active part of the household
And obey the rules, even if they seem unreasonable I'm afraid we have to abide by the rules of any house we live in be it our oarents, rented accomadation etc
I am not syaing it's your fault but just trying to get both sides to coe together
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Postby jampot » Mon Apr 07, 2008 11:02 am

I do obey the rules :cry:
and as for the chores, i do more than my fair share!
i will try the list thing though, thank you for your advice!
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