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Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Tue Nov 04, 2008 10:39 am

He'll have his first, then not want to go again for hours OR he'll have his first and then still be ready to finish up within 20mins.
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Postby whoopsie » Tue Nov 04, 2008 11:57 am

Hm.

My boyfriend told me last night he thinks of brick walls to try and last longer (random, I know!) Maybe your boyfriend could try to think of something different. I imagine it's quite difficult, but he could at least try?
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Postby Bel Bel » Tue Nov 04, 2008 1:08 pm

lol mine says lawnmowers slow him down - :rofl:
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Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Tue Nov 04, 2008 1:32 pm

I've told him to think of dead cats (I'm sure I heard it on a film) lol. Well you can tell when he thinks about something (you can see the cogs turning), but I still don't think it works very well.
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Re: Orgasm help...

Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Wed Feb 18, 2009 11:20 am

Just thought I'd write an update - still no luck lol. My bf tried giving oral for about half an hour the other day and he was getting somewhere but still not "there".

Also the peeing feeling you get...Beforehands I generally always go to the toilet, and afterwards I'm always dying for a wee - it's really annoying!
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Re: Orgasm help...

Postby RagDoll » Wed Feb 18, 2009 12:41 pm

This might sound weird and random but I actually find sex is even better if I don't go to the toilet first and feel like I need a wee a little bit (obviously it would just be uncomfortable if I was desperate lol!). It must be something to do with the bladder pushing on the G spot or something???! Don't know if anyone else finds that too?!

Anyway, I agree with the other posts, the best thing to do is explore your own body and find out what works for you, then you'll be able to point your boyfriend in the right direction so-to-speak! I think most women find it easier to orgasm through clitoral stimulation.
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Re: Orgasm help...

Postby Bel Bel » Wed Feb 18, 2009 2:02 pm

yes and you may find his tongue just isn't quick enough and you need a vibrator
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Re: Orgasm help...

Postby Pigglet » Thu Feb 19, 2009 1:48 pm

I've never had an orgasm with a man either, no matter what they do.... I even get fed up of oral sex and just want to get on with it... (cos it still fees nice)

My ex was very attentive in the bedroom and tried numerous things but to no avail so you're not on your own Dipsy!

I once came very close I think but stoped my self somehow. (I'm not sure if that was because I was already on the verge of splitting up with my bf so didn't want the momentous occasion with him anymore)! It happened when he was on top and I had my legs almost shut (I think.... its been a year) lol!

I find there's a fine line between pleasure and pain also and, if I get past the 'feeling the need to pee' bit, it then becomes a little painful. Dont know if thats just me though!

Oh well, I'll keep practising with myself for when I meet someone else! :lol:
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Re: Orgasm help...

Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Thu Feb 19, 2009 2:43 pm

I found it a bit painful after the peeing bit the other day as well.
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Re: Orgasm help...

Postby snail » Thu Feb 19, 2009 7:15 pm

Keep trying, Dipsy. Quite a lot does depend on how skillful and experienced the man is. I had my first ever orgasm at 17 with someone in his 40s, who had been married twice and had a lot of relationships. Once I had, I realised that the main reason it hadn't happened before was that boys of my own age didn't have much of a clue, lol.
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Postby rufio89 » Fri Feb 20, 2009 9:21 am

I had my first ever orgasm at 17 with someone in his 40s


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Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Fri Feb 20, 2009 9:50 am

Lol snail; he does keep saying he was all innocent and he is inexperienced (bearing in mind we've been together almost 3 years). I'd said after 3 years you'd think he wouldn't keep saying he is inexperienced.
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Re: Orgasm help...

Postby snail » Fri Feb 20, 2009 10:10 am

I guess all you can do is give him plenty of feedback as to what feels good and what doesn't, so he does more and more of what feels good. Can you get him to use a vibrator on you, or are you both too worried about noise?
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Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Fri Feb 20, 2009 12:01 pm

Noise probably would be an issue. He lives in a shared house.
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Re: Orgasm help...

Postby Bel Bel » Fri Feb 20, 2009 12:53 pm

anne summers do a super silent one
just to prove to yourself no one can hear it turn it on, lay it one the bed and stand outside the door
and have some music playing so they couldn't tell if it was part of the song
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