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IT'S GETTING TO ME ..

Postby xx_Stacey_Anne_xx » Fri Apr 17, 2009 10:23 pm

Ok , so i can't orgasm from sex,
i know a lot of women can't either
and its really getting to me
but i dont want to live my life not being able to
How else can you orgasm
I want to be able to orgasm at the same time as my partner
Any Help would be appreciated
thanx
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Re: IT'S GETTING TO ME ..

Postby innocent » Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:54 pm

posted you private mail as i wasn't sure if i was allowed to publicly.
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Re: IT'S GETTING TO ME ..

Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Mon Apr 20, 2009 9:04 am

Try it yourself or use a vibrator or get him to go down on you.
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Re: IT'S GETTING TO ME ..

Postby RagDoll » Mon Apr 20, 2009 11:28 am

I think the best way is to find out on your own what feels best, that way you will be able to better guide your boyfriend, but as Dipsy said, using a vibrator/getting him to go down on you are probably the easiest ways to achieve an orgasm
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Re: IT'S GETTING TO ME ..

Postby Bel Bel » Tue Apr 21, 2009 11:58 am

and he will need plenty of patience
it can take a while
mots girls i know say it is quicker with a vibrator than any other way because a man simple can't move his tongue that fast :o
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Re: IT'S GETTING TO ME ..

Postby xx_Stacey_Anne_xx » Tue Apr 21, 2009 4:55 pm

Thanx, but a vibrator is really not an option.
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Re: IT'S GETTING TO ME ..

Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Wed Apr 22, 2009 9:14 am

Try it yourself OR give it more time - you said "I've lost my virginity recently" - that to me means within the last 6 months at most (probably less) so you need to give it a while because in another post didn't you say you were still experiencing some soreness.
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Re: IT'S GETTING TO ME ..

Postby xx_Stacey_Anne_xx » Thu Apr 23, 2009 12:42 pm

Yeah, but i think the soreness, is because we didnt do much forplay but thats better now
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Re: IT'S GETTING TO ME ..

Postby babydee86 » Mon May 11, 2009 10:27 am

foreplay forplay foreplay!!! i didn't orgasam for a good year after i lost my virginity, the when i was totally relaxed with my then bf making me feel very sexy with loads of kisses and gentle touches before hand i orgasamed! i was not even thinking about it because i thought i was the type of girl who could not but when i leasted expected it it just happend!!! now 6 yrs on it happens most times but not always!! but thats cool with me
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Re: IT'S GETTING TO ME ..

Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Mon May 11, 2009 10:48 am

babydee86 wrote:foreplay forplay foreplay!!! i didn't orgasam for a good year after i lost my virginity, the when i was totally relaxed with my then bf making me feel very sexy with loads of kisses and gentle touches before hand i orgasamed! i was not even thinking about it because i thought i was the type of girl who could not but when i leasted expected it it just happend!!! now 6 yrs on it happens most times but not always!! but thats cool with me



See babydee took a while, I've been with my bf for 3 years and haven't had an orgasm...I wasn't a virgin when I got with him and I didn't orgasm before either.
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Re: IT'S GETTING TO ME ..

Postby rufio89 » Mon May 11, 2009 10:58 am

My current boyfriend is the first one I've orgasmed with, and I've been sexually active for 5 years, and even with my current boyfriend it's only been a couple of times.

I didnt even enjoy sex with my first boyfriend, I only really had sex with him to make him happy (which by the way is a stupid stupid thing to do)
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Re: IT'S GETTING TO ME ..

Postby jen » Mon May 11, 2009 11:24 pm

Hi. I agree with the previous posts in that you need to find out what makes you orgasm on your own, then you'll be able to show your boyfriend what to do. I was with my ex for over a year before i had my first orgasm. I can't have one through penetration alone and need to, like a lot of girls, 'help myself along'. It does take time and you must remember to be patient with your partner as it might be playing on his mind that he hasn't managed to get you there yet. Trust me, if you show him the way to go, it will eventually come naturally to him (no pun intended)

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