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Postby lovexo » Wed Apr 22, 2009 2:48 pm

Why does it hurt when you get fingered? (Sorry to sound crude)
But when I had this done to me, it hurt. It was like a burning sensation.
I'm now 17, and this has only ever happened once :|
But I'm scared if it happens again, it will hurt me like it did before.
It wasn't a terrible pain, but it didn't exactly feel pleasurable either!
I'm worried now, because I'm in a relationship & obviously we both want to get "physical".
Any suggestions to ease the pain?
Thank you.
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Re: Why...

Postby RagDoll » Wed Apr 22, 2009 3:12 pm

I would say that a lot of guys don't appreciate how sensitive that whole area is and are too rough - that's why it hurts. I have experienced the same in the past too. It might be different with your boyfriend, but if it's not, tell him to be more gentle.
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Re: Why...

Postby lovexo » Wed Apr 22, 2009 3:18 pm

Thank you :)
I will have to ask him to be gentle with me.
I think it's because last time as well, it just kind of happened (if you get what I mean).
But hopefully it'll be different seeing as this boy actually cares :)
Thanks a lot babe :)
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Re: Why...

Postby earthchild » Wed Apr 22, 2009 3:21 pm

i would like to also add that make sure his fingers are clean before hand otherwise you may develop an infection.
i also get a burning sensation from it aswell, making sure you are hydrated can help alot .
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Re: Why...

Postby rufio89 » Wed Apr 22, 2009 3:22 pm

I found it really painful the first time i got fingered and I was really worried, but the next time it just didnt hurt! Maybe he 'stretched' me or somthing..
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Re: Why...

Postby lovexo » Wed Apr 22, 2009 3:47 pm

Thanks for the replies :)!
I thought I was the only person who got the burning sensation.
Thank you so much lol, oh ok then, I never knew be hydrated could help.
& maybe it wont hurt me next time either.
Thanks a lot, I feel reassured :D
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Re: Why...

Postby Bel Bel » Wed Apr 22, 2009 3:51 pm

NOT TO BE CRUDE BUT YOU CAN TRY PUTTING YOUR OWN FINGER IN TO SEE IF IT HURTS THEN YOU WILL KNOW FOR SURE

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Re: Why...

Postby crumpetsandtea » Wed Apr 22, 2009 3:53 pm

HI loveoxo!

I think it sounds like he was just being a bit too rough. I agree with RagDoll, because men are a lot rougher with their own 'parts', they don't realise how sensitive ours are! Especially when you're not used to it!

Like other people have said, a bit of lubrication will help a lot, it'll reduce any friction, making it less painful.

To prove even further you're not alone, I had a similar issue with my then boyfriend when I was 17, who was NOT gentle in the slightest, and I remember going into work the next day and hardly being able to sit down! :oops:
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Re: Why...

Postby RagDoll » Wed Apr 22, 2009 3:58 pm

Yeh, just to back up what crumpetsandtea is saying, I have bled twice because of people being too rough! Not good :(

You just have to be honest with guys about this kinda of thing.
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