RagDoll wrote:dipsydoodlenoodle wrote:Do you want the excitement like your ex's (arguing etc) or would you rather the stability?
Overall, I'd rather have the stability. It's not that I am moaning, I'm just pointing out how I feel.
I did assume that, I just wanted to make sure so I knew we were on the same page...
RagDoll wrote:I think you're right about enjoying what we have together, and I do. I suppose it is easy to forget how lucky you are though. It's also worth mentioning that ppers will mostly hear about the negative aspects of our relationship as that's what this forum is for, getting help to solve problems, but I know there are a lot of great things we share - I wouldn't be with him if that wasn't the case .. I do appreciate him. It is still nice to take a step back every now and again and think about all the great things though, so thanks
It is sooo easy to forget all the nice things someone has done for you; if for example your boyfriend does something to annoy you, you will instantly forget the 10 really nice things he has just done because that one bad point ruined it.
I think PPers only hear the negative aspects of most peoples relationships because you don't want to talk about the good things, it's the bad things you need help/advice/rants with.