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Re: Foreplay

Postby RagDoll » Wed Jul 29, 2009 2:07 pm

Yeh, I mean as long as you can communicate effectively and trust one another then there shouldn't be an issue with regards to you getting offended and stuff. All he has to do is suggest something and you say yes or no. As long as you respect each others boundaries then I don't see why there should be an issue.

Is there no way you can tell him how you like it re: oral?! I have told my boyfriend things before (e.g. I prefer it slower than he was doing it and longer licks!!!). You'd think he'd have got some hints from the porn he's watched to be honest!

With regards to him stopping and asking if it's nice, why don't you say encouraging things/make encouraging noises (!) when if it feels good, that way he will get the message without asking.
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Re: Foreplay

Postby kerrie24 » Wed Jul 29, 2009 2:12 pm

RagDoll wrote:longer licks!!!

Hahaha nicely put!!
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Re: Foreplay

Postby RagDoll » Wed Jul 29, 2009 2:15 pm

Hehehe ;) These kind of posts amuse me, not because of the problem, obviously, but because I spend half my time thinking about how to word things without sounding too rude!!
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Re: Foreplay

Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Wed Jul 29, 2009 3:21 pm

kerrie24 wrote:How about when your not actually doing anyting just say 'look if its not nice I would say so and its kind of off- putting when you stop and ask'.


I've said that but he hasn't tried since.

RagDoll wrote:You'd think he'd have got some hints from the porn he's watched to be honest!


Yea but you also know how unrealistic it can be. I think he's picked up all the "none true" bits.
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Re: Foreplay

Postby RagDoll » Wed Jul 29, 2009 3:24 pm

Yeh, I totally agree, but you'd think he'd still have a bit of a clue about oral from watching some of it. A lot of guys watch lesbian porn and that usually includes shots of oral sex! Anyway, can you not describe to him how you want it?
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Re: Foreplay

Postby kerrie24 » Wed Jul 29, 2009 3:32 pm

Yeah your just gonna have to try and give him more direction,it wont be like that forever,once hes learnt what you like.
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Re: Foreplay

Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Wed Jul 29, 2009 3:35 pm

kerrie24 wrote:wont be like that forever,once hes learnt what you like


I hope you are right.
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