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LeeNa
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Very Confused

Post by LeeNa » Sun Oct 08, 2006 12:18 am

I am really confused over my sexuality.
I have always believed I am straight, yet, now I am arranging a date with a girl. I do have feelings for her, but don't want to hurt her in any way.
What should I do?

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Post by Moose » Sun Oct 08, 2006 10:24 am

Be honest with her. Is she gay/bi herself? Does she know you've always been straight until now? If not, explain the situation to her. Unless she's always been sure of her sexuality, she'll probably have gone through a confused stage herself. If she plays up about it, she's probably not the best girl to be going on a date with when you aren't really sure.

As for your sexuality, try not to make any decisions yet. See how the date goes, and see how natural things feel.

Good luck.

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Post by LeeNa » Sun Oct 08, 2006 9:30 pm

Thanks.

I've spoken to her and she totally understands the situation, so were going to get to know each other first and then if it feels right, we'll go for it!

xx

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