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gay guy with a huge problem!!!!!!

Postby gtgt1 » Mon Apr 07, 2003 3:00 am

I have a massive problem any advice would be greatly appreciated. My background I am bisexual but very selective in who i sleep with, i have worked in the leisure industry for the last ten years years so there have been plenty of opportunities. I am very particular about the person i go for. I know this is a cliche but I am very straight acting and do get away with it, although a few close friends know. cut to the chase I met a guy a couple of weeks ago who i hit it off with immediately he made me laugh we could talk really easily and have been out a couple of times for a beer. he says he has a girlfriend but she is away at the moment anyway about two weeks ago he told me that a male friend of his had wanted to sleep with him at a party but he refused although he did point out that he was not offended. I left it at that. A few of us then went out for a drink and after a few pints everyone was quite happy and having a laugh when all of a sudden the chap in question just left without saying anything. After getting home I texted him to make sure he was alright, he texted back to say yes and what was I upto. I told him that I was having a beer at home home and did he want to join me, he replied "on the way". He got to my place and we talked til about 4am he crashed on the sofa and i went to bed, nothing happened. He also has a lot of gay friends and I am strictly non scene we met through straight friends who are not aware of my sexuality. My problem is that I really like this guy but if I am wrong It will hurt our friendship, and I have been burn't in the past. Please help
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Postby gord3001 » Mon Apr 07, 2003 11:59 am

sounds to me like he's straight i think u should concider him as a friend and not a prospective lover
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Postby crasygurl » Mon Apr 07, 2003 1:19 pm

why dont ask him about how he felt about that bloke asking him out?
if he makes out he didn't mind or that it didn't make him feel comtable,
why dont you ask him if he ever go out with a bloke, or is intrested in blokes in that way.
but try and careful how you ask him thses questions.
if he not intrested in blokes in that way, they you will have to accept that you can only be friends, and that it may be best not to tell him how you feel.
i am sorry if this is not much help.
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Postby hara » Wed Apr 09, 2003 2:50 pm

look this is the way i look at it. If you think youn trust him anough to tell him then thats the way i think you should go. If hes worth it then he wouldnt mind and you never know what could happen. the gay thing is only half the prob after that you need to know if he likes you as well.
Good luck and let us know how it goes
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Re: gay guy with a huge problem!!!!!!

Postby grillyguy » Wed Feb 18, 2009 12:48 pm

has anything happened since and does he know your gay?
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Re: gay guy with a huge problem!!!!!!

Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Wed Feb 18, 2009 1:35 pm

Grillyguy the post was first written in 2003, so I'd assume the problem has been sorted since then.
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Re: gay guy with a huge problem!!!!!!

Postby grillyguy » Wed Feb 18, 2009 2:54 pm

u never know
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Re: gay guy with a huge problem!!!!!!

Postby peecee » Wed Feb 18, 2009 8:59 pm

Sadly, gtg1 hasn't actually been here since 2003, so we probably will never know!

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Re: gay guy with a huge problem!!!!!!

Postby Aligator » Fri Feb 27, 2009 7:44 pm

lol y did u even look at this post...it was 5 years ago for gods sake ](*,)
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Re: gay guy with a huge problem!!!!!!

Postby snail » Fri Feb 27, 2009 8:54 pm

Best not keep bumping it then, just let it drop off the page.
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