I am a lesbian,and a woman whom has 5 children fancied me..

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I am a lesbian,and a woman whom has 5 children fancied me..

Postby maz » Tue Aug 21, 2007 8:55 pm

Well, just a brief summary, I met her through my mother as she was friends with her mother-in-law. She is about 32, I am 22. I didn't like her at first but noticed since the first time she met me she couldn't take her eyes off me. Was very shy towards me I just knew she fancied me. She was not my type as I don't usually go for married people. I got to know her, I always used to tag along with mum whenever she used to go to their house. So many things happened that made me realise she wanted me. Whenever she sat next to me she was sat really closely that I could hardly breathe. She just kept staring at me, and was very shy. Then time after that I had to go in the bedroom as they were having a extension built, mum was with me so was her mother in law. It was dark in the room and N**** stroked my hair and poked my breasts. I didn't think much off it--I thought I was imagining things. Then time after that as I walked into her house she slowly caressed my neck and kissed me gently...it was awesome

We just got on so well, she doesn't know I'm a lesbian. She probably thinks I don't fancy her but thing is I'm in love with her. I haven't spoken to her in ages as I know she's married and I was trying to stay away. Mum broke up with her mother in law by siding with a different friend. A family feud is going on so I cant speak to her now. I saw her at a funeral recently it was a neighbour's funeral. But as soon as i walked in she couldn't take her eyes off me, I was having the same effect. When she saw me her body language suggested she was very happy to see me. I couldn't speak to her as her husband was with her and my mother was with me. She said to me once your face is so beautiful. I was flattered. She also said "I wish I had someone like you". She got into an arranged marriage. We are both Muslims.

I just saw her now in the car she was driving and so was I, when I turned the corner her face was acting as though she didn't see me. I know it's my fault as I've blanked her so many times.

I haven't listed how many times by the way as this is long enough as it is. I love her so much but don't know if she knows I feel the same. It makes me cry. Advise me on what to do please? xx
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Postby Kimbo-porkchops » Wed Oct 10, 2007 3:36 pm

Hi there
i dont how much help i can be here but all i no is that i have been in the same situation, only mines not as complicated
i liked a guy from my work and i thought he liked me, all it took was a drunk night out for him to tell me he felt the same way as i felt about him. Now im going out with him for over 2 years now

what i can only suggest is that you find away to bump into her, then find something to talk about, wait until you are both on a flow on chatter then look at your watch and say sorry but i really have something to do, we should really catch up sometime though, make a time and date .

then you have an excuse to go out for some one on one time, take it from there really

dont no if i was much help though, thats just what i would do if i was in your shoes
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Postby Bel Bel » Wed Oct 10, 2007 3:46 pm

Well the problem for me is she is still married and has 5 kids
If she breaks up with the husband by all means meet up and have a chat and see if things progress but whilst she is with her husband I would stear well clear it can only lead to trouble and heartache
Try going out to places where you can meet other girls
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Postby john87 » Sun Oct 21, 2007 7:29 pm

Kimbo-porkchops wrote:Hi there
i dont how much help i can be here but all i no is that i have been in the same situation, only mines not as complicated
i liked a guy from my work and i thought he liked me, all it took was a drunk night out for him to tell me he felt the same way as i felt about him. Now im going out with him for over 2 years now

what i can only suggest is that you find away to bump into her, then find something to talk about, wait until you are both on a flow on chatter then look at your watch and say sorry but i really have something to do, we should really catch up sometime though, make a time and date .

then you have an excuse to go out for some one on one time, take it from there really

dont no if i was much help though, thats just what i would do if i was in your shoes


hi there kimbo porkchops. i just wanted to tell you i have also taken your advice. it worked quite well. what made you think of that? have you done it before?
thanks anyways
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Postby Bel Bel » Mon Oct 22, 2007 12:17 pm

so is she still with the husband?
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