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Fragmented
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Insecure?

Post by Fragmented » Wed Mar 04, 2009 12:44 pm

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Re: Insecure?

Post by Bel Bel » Wed Mar 04, 2009 3:33 pm

well she is certianly sending mixed signals
Is she still living far away from you?
how is the physical contact thing going?
It's so early on and you have had nothing but problems and she always seems to be making you feel bad for things you hve done that are very rasoanbel, like the physical stuff in previous post and now with the gay forum issue
Being that you had already had her on a site for contact with others she must have realised this was going to casue tension if you found out
My gut feeling is still that she is going to be more trouble than she is worth and perhaps it's better to get out now
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Re: Insecure?

Post by Fragmented » Wed Mar 04, 2009 7:02 pm

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Re: Insecure?

Post by Bel Bel » Thu Mar 05, 2009 10:46 am

I also wonder with her problems if she is deliberatley trying to have a relationship with someone so far away as it means she gets the attention without having to deal with the intimacy issue very often. She seems to want to be loved and get attention, hence the sites but doesn;t really want to get into a relationship becasue it means delaing with her probelms
I agree with your freinds it shouldn't be this hard this early on
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Re: Insecure?

Post by dipsydoodlenoodle » Thu Mar 05, 2009 10:52 am

Bel Bel wrote:I agree with your freinds it shouldn't be this hard this early on


I agree!
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