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i dont know if im a lesbian

Postby strokesurvior23 » Wed Aug 26, 2009 8:17 am

hi,
I have posted on here a bit recently, i was raped by a woman( i am also female) over 4 years ago now while i was seriousily ill in hospital and unable to defend myself atall, since this i have found myself admiring women in a sexual way , i know befiore the rape i was100% straight but now i dont think i am, im so confused, any advice, ive never been with a woman atall, only men im so confused
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Re: i dont know if im a lesbian

Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Wed Aug 26, 2009 8:42 am

Don't feel the need to give yourself a label. Just go with the flow and concentrate on getting yourself better. The main step is getting you feeling better and more confident in yourself. I think once you feel better and more confident then you can concentrate on seeing if you are attracted to men or women; do you think since the incident you maybe thought about women in a sexual way where as before it's something that you never considered; I'm just wondering if you actually think it or it's just a side effect from what happened?

When you first joined you were really vauge; and now you are saying more; it's good to see you opening up. As you know you can say anything you want on here and no one will judge you; people on here try to help solve the situation as best they can :).
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Re: i dont know if im a lesbian

Postby kerrie24 » Wed Aug 26, 2009 9:02 am

Its totally normal to be able to notice a good looking woman when you see one,it doesnt mean your gay so there is no need to rush off and start over-analysing it.You are what you are and either way is fine.
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