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... bisexual?

Postby WildChild » Thu Oct 08, 2009 2:29 pm

Hey Guys [:
(this is maybe some gud infomation: i'm 13, my boyfriend is 15, and I'm a girl )
I think that women bodies are more attractive than men. I don't know why, but I'm more attractive to a womans body than to a man. I dont think that a mans penis is sexy at all? But still, If I see a good looking guy on the street I notice him, but I'm just looking at his face. It's kind of weird, I know. That's why I'm confused... My problem is that I have a boyfriend, (well he's not the problem but ehm) and he turns me on when we are together, (and that it still not a problem at all) but when I watch some kind of porn, I all focus on the woman. In some how, I'm more attracted to women in that situation. But when I'm with my boyfriend he can still turn me on, and we are really happy together. So I'm not a lesbian, but... Am I bisexual?

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Re: ... bisexual?

Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Thu Oct 08, 2009 2:44 pm

I think you are maybe turned on by women when watching porn because it's different and exciting; it doesn't mean you want a woman.

I am straight but I also think womens bodies are more attractive then men; it's just I guess I appreciate it; but I don't fancy women. There was a discussion on here a while ago and it was "do you think women or men are better looking" most of the girls on here said girls - again not because they are gay or bi; just because you think someone is better looking or has a better body it doesn't mean you physically wan tthem.

I also think that you are too young to be deciding; just enjoy your boyfriend and see how it goes over the next few years?
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Re: ... bisexual?

Postby WildChild » Thu Oct 08, 2009 2:54 pm

hah. ye, thanks.
I've been so worried? cuz I'm so not ready to be a Bisexual.. I don't think my brain can handle it..
hmm.
But, I read a few Posts about almost the same situation and I think you are right. Now I can go to sleep tonight...
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Re: ... bisexual?

Postby all_apologies » Sun Oct 11, 2009 12:05 pm

I personally think that women's bodies are inherently more sexy than men's, and I think this is regardless of my own sexuality. I've spoken to straight female friends who also agree, so it doesn't necessarily determine your sexuality.

Then again, maybe it is a sign of your bi/homosexuality, but at such a young age it's difficult to know for sure this early on if it's something you're only just starting to notice. It usually takes some time to get to grips with the prospect of being attracted to your own gender. Keep an open mind and it'll become apparent soon enough whether you are into girls or whether you're just a passive admirer of the female form!

I'm gay but can still appreciate a good-looking guy. I've had a fair few relationships with guys in the past and they never did anything for me. I would assume, if your boyfriend genuinely does turn you on, that you're not gay and are more likely bisexual. Have you ever been attracted to any girls 'in real life' or is this purely based on when you're watching porn?
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Re: ... bisexual?

Postby muckytucky » Thu Dec 03, 2009 3:43 pm

im one of those weird people who never thinks anyone can really be put into a box like gay or straight. Chances are that even the people who seem to be the straightest people you know have fantasized or even had gay experiences and vice versa. I think your right about penis's they really are not the most attractive things in the world. But also don't forget that when your mind finds something like that and you cant get it out of your system by doing it, it will have the tendency to focus on that one thought. Dont feel like you have to make a decision one way or another is what i suppose i am trying to say, you are young so experience what life offers you and then make your mind up later if you so choose.
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Re: ... bisexual?

Postby HappyGoLucky » Tue Dec 15, 2009 9:55 am

dipsydoodlenoodle wrote:I am straight but I also think womens bodies are more attractive then men; it's just I guess I appreciate it; but I don't fancy women.


Yeah, same here. I don't think you have anything to worry about. Also, being bi isn't a terrible thing really and anyway, you're still young. Relax and take things easy atm. :)
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Re: ... bisexual?

Postby Sunstreaker » Sat Dec 19, 2009 2:20 pm

i agree with dipsydoodlenoodlein that i think that womens bodies are more atractive than mens but im still gay. you still have alot of years ahead of you to make up your mind so just take it slow, k.
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Re: ... bisexual?

Postby peecee » Sat Dec 19, 2009 8:24 pm

Wildchild, darling girl.

You're THIRTEEN. I'm an OLD mod. :o (with 10 nieces and nephews ranging from 1 to 23, mind :P )

So when I say that 13 is NOT old enough to worry about being hetero, bi, gay, or a goldfish, can you believe me when I say you shouldn't even be worrying about this stuff yet? From my experience, all young teens have strong friendships/crushes on people of the opposite sex, then things get into shape (one way or the other) later, when the time is right.

Honestly, you have more important things to worry about at this stage in your life. :)

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