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I badly want him back

PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2003 3:43 am
by chicka_green123
Alright here's the situation... I wanted this guy reeeeal bad, so I went after him... and then I got him, so I got into a relationship with him. Then a month and a half later, I found out that I was going to be moving (Parental problems) well, I wasn't supposed to tell anyone so I didn't.

This guy and I weren't extremely close either, cuz he doesn't have a phone, and I work on weekends. Anyways, I decided I needed to break up with him, and I did... made up a reason "it's not you..it's me" that whole deal, cuz I was so distraught and stressed out, didn't realize what I was doing.

Well, my parents and I had a talk, and figured things out, and I'm staying here with my mom, so now I want him back...badly, and I don't know how to approach the situation.

I know he still likes me (so he says to my friends) and he knows I like him, but he's afraid to ask me out again cuz he has a problem with relationships... he gets attached and they dump him, and it annoys him, and I'm a wuss so I don't wanna ask him out...someone help pleeeeease!!!

I like him soooo much! I know that I should "talk it out with him", but if anyone has any not that ideas too, it'd be great...thanx

Profanity removed by Enigma on 1 April 2003

PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2003 9:17 am
by X_Smiler_X
Hiya,
I sort of know how you feel, because I was with my boyfriend a year and a half - hard isn't it?
But you have to be sure it'll work this time, because if it doesn't, you will end up hating eachother - thats why me and my ex finished, because thats the last thing i wanted to happen.
Talk to him about it, and make sure he definately wants you too - because if all fails and you dont get on as well as you did, it'll end in tears.
Good luck
Smiler x

PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2003 6:58 pm
by Enigma
chicka_green123 please watch your language.

PostPosted: Tue Apr 08, 2003 7:31 pm
by Llisa
HI hun,
Sucks when something comes back and slaps you in the face eh? Don't worry. This solution might seem too simple, but I think it's probably the best way.
Just go up to him, and tell him the situation. Tell him you were planning on moving and didn't think you could handle a long distance relationship and that's why you broek up with him. Admit to him that maybe it wasn't the best thing to do, but you still really like him and would love to have him back, since you are now staying in town.
If he really likes you, chances are, he'll understand and come bakc to you, but he'll probably have some reserves about the whole thing and might not be himself for a bit. But trust me, the best thing to do is be honest...and if he doesn't accept your explanation, then maybe he isn't worht your trouble after all. But by the sounds of it, he is.
will be praying for you