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Another Online Relationship Problem

Postby JimboA » Sun Apr 13, 2003 11:40 am

Help!
I'm married but having serious problems. I have 2 young children too. I have met a fantastic American woman online and have fallen in love. Her marriage is almost over also (she also has two kids).
I am prepared to go and live with her in the US if things work out between us.
Yes we have already met once and I hope to again in June.

Since I got back she has become a little distant, and after a while I got it out of her that she didn't want to be responsible for me leaving my children (which I can understand).

I love her very much, but how can I convince her that it would be my decision and she shouldn't end this relationship for my choices?

I love my boys very much too, but this may be my final chance of being with someone who I love dearly.

I guess I sound really heartless to be 4000 miles from my kids.
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Postby Amz » Sun Apr 13, 2003 9:33 pm

That really is a tricky situation isnt it..

If your absoulutely ready for this (and make sure you are hun) then explain EXACTLY how you feel.

I dont think your heartless, but you must think about the effect this will have on your children.

I wish you all the luck.XXX
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My advice

Postby Daftness2k3 » Mon Apr 14, 2003 10:49 pm

My advice is only, make sure you're both 100% sure.....It has to be 100%...
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