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he messing with my head,

Postby psycho » Mon Apr 14, 2003 4:38 pm

hi, i kinda new to this,
i hoping i able to get some advice with my problem.

it probably stupid.
ok,
my boyfriend changes each month towards me,
one mintue he is all over me, can wait to see me again and txxts and phones me all the time and the next, well he acts as though i dont exist.
this happen on and off during our relationship of 10 months.

i tried talking to him,
i can always say what i want,
whan i do he just claimes i am paranoid.

i care about alot,
i sure he dont feel d same as me,
but all the other blokes, in the past hurt me he hasn't,
i relieased i love him.

some times i feel such a fool.
i even end up having to say i am sorry if i get angry with the way he some times makes me feel,
because i tell how i feel and he get up set and i hate doing that to him.

i feel he is playing with my emotions.
u probably say i should dump but i cant.
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Postby giggler » Tue Apr 15, 2003 11:31 am

One thing is to make sure your not bringing any baggage from previous relationships into this one, make sure it's not your insecurities that are making you feel like he's playing with your head, he can't be with you constantly and he's entitled to his own time too.
If its not the above then next time you feel that he's been ignoring you, talk to him calmly (nothing can get soved in anger), explain how you feel when he doesn't contact you etc, if he still refuses to see it from your point of view then your wrong... he is hurting you like your exes and doesn't deserve your love.

All the best, :lol:
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Postby crasygurl » Tue Apr 15, 2003 11:38 am

i think you and your boyfriend need a really long chat about your relationship.
ask him why he keeps acting liking this.
if he keeps telling you,
you're paranoid every time you tell him how he makes you feel at times,
you should start asking him y he does this,
he seams to want ignore certain problems in your relationship,
but belaming you it not going to solve them, it has clearly made things worest.
he may be worried about the problems, but just doesn't know what to do about them.
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