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whats he at??

Postby buttercup » Thu May 15, 2003 10:18 am

hi ya im if u read my other topic this completely confusing me now! rite i had an affair and im in love with the other guy!! my hubby didnt mind hes ok with!! but lately he thinks my m8 fancys him and he wants her number and wants us all to go out and we r next tuesday but im not sure whats he at as i know my m8 gets on well with him!! so any suggestions!! he only wants to talk about her!! i tried talkg to him last nite about splitting he says will be ok but i cant get through to him im soo unhappy and really want to at least talk to the other guy even if its just to clear the air and nothing else at least then id know!!!
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Postby midnite » Thu May 15, 2003 11:39 am

sorry but who is it that your m8 likes.

any way, i gree with u i think u should talk with the other bloke.
u said love him,
i think u should think about ur current relationship with ur husband.
do u still think ur marriage is going to work.
u dont seam to sure.
i think u need some time and space to think about this.

ur husbands seams to care about u alot.
but it is not fair on either of u,
if u feel this is not right.
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Postby misatok11 » Thu May 15, 2003 9:47 pm

Hes thinking he can have his cake and eat it. Because you had a fling he expects to have one himself and you to react the same way he did. I get the impression that you only want to stay together because it comfortable and you dont know any different.
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