i dont understand do i want him or not?

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i dont understand do i want him or not?

Postby saraha » Mon May 19, 2003 11:05 pm

i have been with my bf 4 11 months now.
ok we had a few probs but besides this are relationship is great.

he even told me 4 the first time he loved me last friday nite.
but my problem is i dont no if i wanta be with him.

he messed me around during most our relationship.
i mean i love him,
i think about him all the time.
i love being with him and spending time with him.

so may it because he messed me around,
but sometimes i have doughts.
yet i love him,
dont wanta break up him with because i care about him to much.

may be i a worrying about nothing
i put most the effort in to this relationship that be the reason to why i feel so confused.
maybe if he made more of an effort maybe i wont feel like this what do you think.
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dont let him mess with you

Postby Jupiter » Mon May 19, 2003 11:18 pm

ok i wouldlove to tell you to go with the love but... he sounds a little bit like he's mssing you about. give him an ultimatum its you and no messing around or its over i wouldnt be messed with personally.

a relationship is 50 50 not 90 10. equal both give and take dont give him everything and let him take it get someone better. if you stay he will hurt you in the longrun sorry to say it but i seen friends get messed around and its nasty to pick up the pieces
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Postby Diane » Tue May 20, 2003 11:46 am

I think 80% of the female populaion have bin in ure shoes! this is because lads just dont know how to be in relationships no matter how much u try and work at things! sorry to say this but it sounds as if he wants u to be his possession rather than his g/f. do ureself a favour and show him the door

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