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have i ruin my chances

Postby midnite » Fri May 23, 2003 11:20 am

my bf always asks me 4 stuff.
i kinda had it.
he gets paid double what i d0 a month as he works full time and i dont, as i am at college.

he asking to much from me.
i asked him loads of times to stop and calm down.

last nite i txt him

saying i am not going to do this no more,
and if he carries on he should go out with some one who is rich.

i told him i had to be honest to him about my feelings.

but now i hate my self.
i told him that i want to sort this out,
as i really care about him alot and dont want this to effect us.

but i think i ruin my chances of working this out with him.
we been together 4 almost 12 months now.
he even told me last week for the first time he loves me.
as he dont express his feelings much as he finds it so hard.

he don't mean to be like this i know he don't.
he didn't realise how it effected me.
i am sure he hates my guts right about now.
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Postby Aldo » Sat May 24, 2003 9:53 pm

I don't see anything wrong with that! If you are on a tight budget then I feel you were justified in saying you can t afford to splash out all the time. I know my limits and I know my friends limits, so dont go out doing things over extravegantly.

If he is in a strop then I have no idea why.
If you dont ask you will never know
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Postby jagsoccer4321 » Thu Jun 05, 2003 9:46 pm

you didn't do anything wrong! you told him the right thing... if he needs money so bad, go 2 a rich girl! you need your money more then he does! and if he really needs it he can borrow from friends and family or take on another job! its not your job to be his mom and pay for everything that he wants!
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