by Llisa » Wed Jun 11, 2003 3:54 am
Hi hun,
This must be agonizing for you. But being a girl, I KNOW where she's coming from! Not entirely of course...since I have never been intimate like that with my boyfriends (a personal belief). You've likely heard of hte monthly blues? Did you know that they cant last a whole lot longer then a month? Us girls have VERY weird hormone levels, and they push all our feelings and emotions and deisres out of whack on a regular basis. Your girlfriend is no doubt going through one of these stages. Three months? huh...yeah! I wish some of my phases lasted as short as that! really doll, I don't think you have too much to worry about. However, if you notice any other tell-tale signs, such as problems with eating, SEVERE mood swings, or anything else like that, see a doctor. Don't necessarily take her to the doctor with you the first time, but she may have a serious problem. Really though, I don't think it's that. Only go to the doctor as a last resort! You should definitly talk to her too...let her know how you're feeling and ask how hse's feeling. Maybe right now she's testing you too...seeing how you're responding to having to 'go without'. Whatever it is, I hope it all works out for the both of you.
Will be praying for you