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I dunno what to do bout this lad

Postby plattsy_girl » Mon Jul 07, 2003 5:41 pm

Hi. I need help and fast. Right, this lad i know fancys me is gonna ask me out on either tues thurs or fri. I wanna say yes but i know i cant. I dont want him to go off me cus he is so much fun to be with. oh help ahhh. :-?
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Postby mixed up chick » Mon Jul 07, 2003 5:48 pm

hey
You dont say why you can't say yes, so that makes it harder for us to give you some advice. Anyway maybe you could just tell this lad why you cant go out with him and maybe you could still actually do going out kinda stuff. Like you could still meet up at the weekends, hold hands, kiss and stuff like that. If you cant do stuff like this either just say to this boy that you do like him but you just can't go out with him at this time but maybe you could in a few months ( Thats if you can) or just say you like him but you can never go out and ask if you can still be friends. Sorry about this advice being a bit weird but it is quite hard when you dont know the details but goodluck anyway!
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Postby plattsy_girl » Mon Jul 07, 2003 5:55 pm

Thanx. Thats a good idea i might just do the i will go out with u l8a thing. Thanx.
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Postby Llisa » Wed Jul 09, 2003 3:03 am

Hi hun,
Maybe we could help you out better if we knew why you "can't go out with him" hmmm?
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Postby plattsy_girl » Wed Jul 09, 2003 1:32 pm

well i just cant its hard to explain
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Postby mariamaria » Wed Jul 09, 2003 4:27 pm

Okay, that makes things very hard to help you with then.
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Postby plattsy_girl » Wed Jul 09, 2003 4:44 pm

Lets just say i will have no friends if i say yes. And i know friends are way more important
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Postby mariamaria » Wed Jul 09, 2003 4:45 pm

Well I don't have friends so I wouldn't know how to advise you. And no, I don't have friends because I'm un-sociable. I don't have friends because of constant rumours in high school that were completely false and that wouldn't disappear.
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Postby plattsy_girl » Wed Jul 09, 2003 4:50 pm

surely u can get friends that didnt go ure high school. Anyway what rumour could be sooooo bad that u dont have one friend.
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Postby mariamaria » Wed Jul 09, 2003 4:53 pm

People treated me like I was the plague when there was a rumour going around that I was lesbian. At that time, I had no idea of my sexuality. However, they proved to know me better than I do as I am now bisexual and I don't like it. So I ignore that area of my life.
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Postby plattsy_girl » Wed Jul 09, 2003 4:57 pm

ppl ignored u just because they thought u were a lesbian. how sad is that. anyway they were only half right remember. :D
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Postby mariamaria » Wed Jul 09, 2003 4:58 pm

Lol, yeah, but I had no friends because of it. That's why nobody wants to know me. I'm open about it. I'm starting to think that I should bottle it up as it is doing my social life no good whatsoever.
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Postby plattsy_girl » Wed Jul 09, 2003 5:04 pm

oh my god what would the point in that be. I ve tried that and ppl find out anyway. Its better 4 u to let them know u dont care what they think
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