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Postby Tarantula » Mon Aug 31, 2015 3:52 pm

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Re: We broke up.

Postby miaow » Tue Sep 01, 2015 1:28 pm

Hi

You want to be with a guy who tried to strangle you? A guy that poked you hard enough for security to be called, and your brother to step in? Sounds like you are only seeing the good in this guy. Hopefully time away from him will make you see what he is - warts and all.

Maybe you are clinging to the hope he is a good guy because he helped you from your despair - it doesn't matter if he saved your from a killer shark, if he tried to strangle you that is enough to get the warning bells ringing, for your own safety.

Be kind to yourself and give yourself a break. Delete his number, ignore his calls/texts. Busy yourself with your new job and friends, don't give yourself time to think about him. This new chapter of your life, with your new job could be the making of you, and with an active social life and new friends from work you have a good chance of meeting someone who deserves you, who will treat you right and not physically or emotionally hurt you.
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