Hey guys, im new to this forum.
I need help with jealousy and paranoia, me and my girlfriend have recently got a full time job and working in the same place but almost different hours. We were in work today (20/3/2016) and she was over speaking to the KP for around 10 mins, later that day one of the men who worked in another shop came over to speak to her WHILE I stood beside her. He didnt speak as in flirting etc, he spoke to her without looking at me. He was standing pretty close to her, I hadnt spoke to her for around 3 hours and she finally asked what was wrong. I had told her the situation but as usual as all girls say "you have nothing to worry about, Im with you and everyone knows that Im engaged to you". I still find it hard to hide my feelings with jealousy and paranoia, we are both cleaners but when I dont see her on the floor I get paranoid wondering where is she, who is speaking too, what are they doing etc. I know it seems pretty bad but we broke up for at least 2 weeks then got back together after getting the job. Please help me cure this, I cant go on like this. I understand nobody can help threw messages, I have suggested counselling as she was once like this but she laughed it off. Iv also suggested we go for a spa weekend to calm down and get away from everything.
Thanks in advance guys.