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Does my bum look big?

PostPosted: Wed Jun 29, 2016 7:49 pm
by Mrconfused74
Ok, question for the ladies, do women comment on a part of their body to draw attention to it when talking to a guy! Or is it just conversation?

Example, talking to a friend I see occasionally and she mentions on a few occasions that she thinks her bum looks big, she needs to lose weight! Is this normal or do women want us to comment, compliment even? Just curious as I find it strange considering the friendship it is.

Re: Does my bum look big?

PostPosted: Thu Jun 30, 2016 12:10 pm
by Tarantula
She's fishing for compliments.

If you avoid the question, you will stay in the friendzone.
If you reassure her, you will stay in the friendzone.

If you agree and tell her she does need to lose weight, you will no longer be friends.

I hope the rest of her conversational topics aren't so generic. :P

Re: Does my bum look big?

PostPosted: Thu Jun 30, 2016 1:56 pm
by Trevaskiss
I'd agree with Tarantula. Sounds a bit like fishing for a compliment to me.

What sort of friendship is it? Is it one that could go that little bit further?

Re: Does my bum look big?

PostPosted: Thu Jun 30, 2016 8:47 pm
by Mrconfused74
I agree she's after a compliment just can't see why, she has a partner, but by all accounts she's not happy, seems to be with him so as not to be alone!! We just chat, yes I like her but won't do anything, we could go a few weeks without talking but then chat a lot, so I guess she's feeling down and needs a ego boost.

Re: Does my bum look big?

PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2016 4:04 pm
by Mrconfused74
Ok, so she's done it again, saying she needs to lose weight etc... Is it just looking for an ego boost? Or trying to draw my attention to her body?

Re: Does my bum look big?

PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2016 6:21 pm
by Tarantula
Ego boost.