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Hey thanks for the responses, I made the decision to not see the little one anymore. I told my ex that it ain't right and i need to get on with my life and she does with hers. I do love my girlfriend I think it's just I have feelings maybe even love for my ex too. But I want to move foward with my life not back and I made the hard decision to let the kid go. I'm so sad about it and I'll always love her but I guess I need to get over it and move on. My girlfriend said she would love to have a kid with me one day and have that family life with me, she has been through a lot because of me and I'm going to make amends and treat her how she deserves to be treated. One bit of advice I will give anyone is not to get involved with someone else's kid and get attatched too soon, it's more painful than missing an ex.
You will be a fabulous father, as you have already shown with this little one. I am sure that the pain you feel now will benefit your own family by making you appreciate them even more. All the best
Thanks reckoner i never thought I'd love being a father as much as I did, she wasn't mine but I was her father in the time I was with my ex. I can't wait to have my own kids it's a beautiful thing.