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Why hurt her?

PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2003 7:00 pm
by DHa
my problem is im 14 and the girl i luv is 16, i didnt think she'd luk at me twice but she did and we went out together 4 2 wks during this time she tuk my virginity. But then my girlfriend wanted 2 try agen so i did. A few wks l8r the same happened agen The 1 day a few weeks ago ema* was upset so i tuk her 4 a fag n i kissed her but she sed id hurt her b4 and id do it agen. The thing is i no shes rite but i luv her so much, why do i keep hurting her?
DHa :evil:

PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2003 9:29 pm
by stellar
so what exactly happened? You're in love with a girl who you've slept with but you have girlfriend too?


PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2003 10:01 pm
by DHa
Ye ema*s amazin iv finished with that girl now but theres been anuva since i was gonna dump her b4 ema found out i went with her but my cousin let it slip :x

PostPosted: Fri Mar 21, 2003 5:43 pm
by stellar
So basically what you're saying is that you're "in love" with Ema but you are still seeing other girls on the side?
My advice is, if you really do "love" Ema then you should stop messing around with other girls and prove to her that you can be loyal to just one girl. Otherwise you're just going to mess Ema around and hurt her feelings, and if you really do "love" her then you wouldn't want that would you?
Plus if you really do love her then why are you carrying on with other girls?

PostPosted: Fri Mar 21, 2003 6:31 pm
by DHa
becoz shes got a lot of issues n that scares me she was abused n thats a big w8 on my shoulders :(

PostPosted: Fri Mar 21, 2003 11:14 pm
by Enigma
How's that a big weight on your shoulders? All you've got to do is treat her properly...

PostPosted: Sat Mar 22, 2003 12:19 pm
by DHa
Sumtimes she freaks out n has flash backs n i cant cope with that

PostPosted: Sat Mar 22, 2003 5:05 pm
by misatok11
If you really do care for her then help her through these and talk to her. She is probably scared too. Reassure her.

PostPosted: Sat Mar 22, 2003 8:13 pm
by DHa
woz suposd 2 c ema lst nite but did the decent thing n didnt go cos we wudv ad sex but i go wid sum1 els now

PostPosted: Sat Mar 22, 2003 9:10 pm
by Enigma
What is your actual problem DHa?

You can't make your mind up which girl to go for?

PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2003 12:08 am
by KoRn_Freak
Sounds like you don't know what you want. Tip: if you 'love' Ema, you won't keep going off with other girls and sleeping with them. For one, that's degrading to your reputation, and two, it's obviously hurting Ema a lot. No wonder she freaks out and has flash backs: don't be surprised if she's ready to spaz and get ready to break your neck. She obviously feels used. You gotta learn to be faithful. Honesty's the only policy.