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are we having relationship problems?

PostPosted: Sat Mar 22, 2003 10:16 pm
by maisey
my boyfriend does not work because of an injury, he has not been to work for about 3 months and is due at college in september. he enjoys working and says it does his head in being at home all day, looking at the same four walls. he stays at home all day and plays on the computer, since then he has gone off making love :( , it happens about once a week at the moment, everything else in the relationship seems fine, could it just be the fact that hes not at work that is putting him under presure or could there be more to it? he also gets realy frustrated easily. its putting me under strain aswell because i dont know if its something ive done?i have asked him if were ok and he said yes

PostPosted: Thu Mar 27, 2003 3:53 pm
by sophie
i dont know how long you have been seeing this guy, but sex is never as passionate as when you first met, this is just life, it may also be because he is not working and bored, he may be feeling a bit down about things, speak to him about it, it may help things. dont give up on him :D

PostPosted: Sat Mar 29, 2003 9:43 am
by misatok11
I think he needs to get out. This can be extremely hard because a lot of people dont want to go out beacuse for some reason they feel embarassed or stupid. This needs to be addressed by both you and your partner. You need to discuss it openly and calmly. Hopefully it should sort itself out by the two of you talking and going out. If it's left to continue it may lead to your partner suffering depression and this can be very hard to break sometimes.