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how shud i tell him how i feel wivout hurtin him

PostPosted: Wed Apr 09, 2003 8:18 pm
by justin_luver
there is thus lad that i know from skool, we dont really talk much or at all in skool, but he added me 2 msn, he is a nice person an everythin an he has a lot of problems which i help him out wiv wen i can, the only problem is that he really fancys me an he keeps tellin me, but i dont feel the same, an although i was flattered by it i dont no how 2 let him know that i dont like him wivout hurtin him , i tell him that i like ova ppl loads an stuff, but he wants 2 do stuff on the weekends an that an it wud feel wierd 2 me so i dont no how 2 let him down like?

PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2003 10:16 am
by danielle
well i would be very interested in the replies u get for this cus i going throught the same thing with one of my mates he is really nice but i just want to be friends with him.

PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2003 5:13 pm
by tammybligh
I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but you really have to sit down and talk to him. If you only want to be friends with him, then it's unfair to keep him guessing. Tell him how much you value his friendship and you wouldn't ever want to jeopardise that. Whatever you do, don't keep making up excuses as to why you can't go out with him. These things have a tendancy to blow up in your face when you least expect it. Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy....

He obviously means a lot to you, or you wouldn't be asking about it on here. Although you'll have to prepare yourself for the possibility that it may be too difficult for him to be 'just good friends' with you.

I was in a similar situation to this a couple of years ago. But we talked it all over and he is still one of my closest friends...

This is always a tough thing to do, and I really hope it all works out for you.